[ahyc84]

you know, when you really find "the one", you'll have the balls to go up to her and talk

just don't sit home all the time. Go out and eat sometimes, even if it's alone. Go to the library, go for runs in the morning.

Just develop a lifestyle that allows you to see other people.

I have a cousin that either works, or else he's on msn. he does have friends from church, but never had a gf. Oh, and the most important part. He's 27.