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最初由 Flying Angel 發表
mmm~~ I've seen those examples before~~ my sis's one~ but the thing is that although she had received lots and lots laughters from other people and her parents~~~ she still doesn't care~~ @_@ Is there a way to get her to go on a diet?? I've tried everything!!!! |
Do u think it's necessary for her to go on a diet?
It is controversial I guess.
If she feels happy and satisfied about herself,
do we have to make her do something that she
doesn't want to do?
其實大部分的女生
一輩子都為了身材跟外表跟自己過不去,
很多女生減肥減過頭,
病態的控制飲食, 或是花大筆錢在減肥產品上;
而且總是拿自己跟雜誌上的model, 跟街上的女孩比;
因此失去了自己的個性, 自信, 自尊.
其實這樣活得開心嗎? 很辛苦吧....
能夠不在乎別人的眼光,
還能活的快樂自在的確是一件很難的事,
如果妳sis並不那麼在意自己的身材,
可能她對自己有其他方面的追求.
而且她也充滿了自信的girl's power呢^^
如果她過得自信, 快樂又滿足,
在不影響到健康的考量下,
是不是該尊重她自己個人的特色和選擇;
而不是一昧的用我們的價值觀, 套在她的身上,
去逼迫她做一些她根本不在乎的事情呢?