[Nemo]

no body answered my 2nd question..XD
:laugh:
i think i am an ok kid, i think when i think my parents are reasonable i will lisent..
but sometimes cuz of the dynamics of society
things change, and sometimes their view point is no longer valid..
like my dad wants me to get married no matter what..
currently i am considering singlehood for the rest of my life...
he thinks i am being stupid and unreasonable..
but there's no reason for me to want to get married..
the society now accepts unwed women, and women can provide for her own..
10 yrs ago, an unwed women is an unwanted women..women often cant achieve anything but a minimin wage job..that's not ganna be enough...
so women need to get married (in a sense)

anyways..that's not my point...my point is i lisent when i think wut they are saying is "right" or fits with the times..
like with my degree, totally agree a degree is important...
eventhough it may not be much use, but it is still important
i dont however lisent to unreasonable wants..like the marriage stuff..

so..i think if i were my mom, i probablly be happy..
except the fact that it's taking me so freaking long to graduate..XD

well... the thing with acceptable doesn't mean it is necessary better for one's life.

"for every gain there must be a lost, no one can have all the goodis in their pocket."

so, ur parents must have their reason beyond just the TRADITIONAL. and we have to undertand traditional way is actually formulated through experince, so unreasonable it may sounds, there must a truth lie within.

i dont really like to be locked in a family setting too, but every time i watch "every body loves raymon", i thought a family can be fun and enjoyable too.