[阿苦]

yah, I think most ppl would try to ask their bf/gf to quit smokin' if they hate it.

but my point is about "好惡分明"

You mite really detest gals who smoke, but if you fall in love w/ a gal who smokes...ok, you will try to make her quit. But will you detest your gf just cuz she smokes? If you two are already going out, you still detest smoking alrite, but will you view your gf w/ the same degree of detest as when you look at other gal smokers?

You'd probably detest a gal smoker, and not even approach her just cuz gal smokers look slutty and ugly. But when your gf smokes, would you try to break up or keep on trying to get her to quit?

:)

我覺得看人吧
我知道有些人真的很討厭人家抽煙
一看到人抽煙就會反感
這樣的人.. 一開始看到人家抽煙就不會有興趣了
怎麼可能跟 smoker 變成男女朋友啊?