[晴天]

反感

Bye bye


haha...

[|3uggiE]

沒什麼特別感覺
不要吸二手菸就好

[blueice]

現在講的都是那種批判性感覺

可是大部分人戀愛時就會顛覆先前的"好惡", 所以其實不準的

[晴天]

現在講的都是那種批判性感覺

可是大部分人戀愛時就會顛覆先前的"好惡", 所以其實不準的

but i'll never even go near a guy that smokes
so i don't think i'll ever like a smoker...
so i think it's correct for me
wwwwwwwwwwweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

[catfe0690]

討厭

他們一定是不知道抽煙會導致性無能

[water]

but i'll never even go near a guy that smokes
so i don't think i'll ever like a smoker...
so i think it's correct for me
wwwwwwwwwwweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

me too..
hahaha
plus a lot of guys that smoke have that smell on them..
i hate that smell..it's gross...
i do not want to be around that smell all day..:shakehead

[blueice]

but i'll never even go near a guy that smokes
so i don't think i'll ever like a smoker...
so i think it's correct for me
wwwwwwwwwwweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

有些情況你考慮一下是否會有不同

1. 你剛開始不知道他有抽煙, 有了感覺開始交往後才發現他抽煙

2. 你在剛認識他就知道他抽煙


兩者有很大的不同. 在 2 裡, 人在沒有任何感情或感覺時, 都可以靠理智去批判. 最重要的是當投入感情後那份理智還剩多少.

所謂情人眼裡出西施, 並不是空講的. 因為當你"愛"或"喜歡"上一個人時, 你的包容性會是意想不到地大. 所以一切還是個未知數.

剛開始知道而先制止自己不去接近或者先去排斥了, 當然便什麼都不會發生.



當然, 即使投入感情後仍堅守條件和喜好的還是有, 所以我上文用的形容詞是"大部分", 而不是絕對.

但是個人是否如自己"鐵齒"說的一樣, 這也不是我能去判斷你的. :)

[blueice]

how can guys in skin tight outfits look gay? this is just a symbolic thing.

most guys i know -- even guys who smoke -- hate girl smokers.

well, I can see what your point is at

but in terms of skin tight outfit, thought not absolute, but it's quite common for gays to dress skin tight, though it's inductive, it kinda makes sense.


In terms of slutty though...I dunno, is it common for slutty gals to smoke?

[CK]

現在講的都是那種批判性感覺

可是大部分人戀愛時就會顛覆先前的"好惡", 所以其實不準的

umm...

if i really fall in love with a girl smoker, i know i'll try my best to make her quit smoking. i absolutely detest girl smokers. i know i'm being sexist, but girls smokers do look 100x worse than guy smokers.

there is negotiation of bad habits in love, but smoking is definitely something that is not negotiable to me.

[CK]

well, I can see what your point is at

but in terms of skin tight outfit, thought not absolute, but it's quite common for gays to dress skin tight, though it's inductive, it kinda makes sense.


In terms of slutty though...I dunno, is it common for slutty gals to smoke?

let me put it this way.

if i see a girl smoker, no matter how beautiful, smart, talented, etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc she may be, i will still detest her just because she smokes.

i have asked tons of guys, and many of them have the same thoughts as me, including smokers as i mentioned earlier. i personally just can't stand girl smokers.