[blueice]

didn't u know fairness was thrown out ot the window a long time ago....^^

...it sounds to me like u helped

[Nemo]

...it sounds to me like u helped

lol...it is more like it never really existed...^^
it is one of those fairy tale idea that good guy should end up with good result and vice versa...^^

[blueice]

lol...it is more like it never really existed...^^
it is one of those fairy tale idea that good guy should end up with good result and vice versa...^^

為什麼你覺得跟只有做過一次的女孩在一起才算是 good result?

這跟我媽那時代的思想其實差不了多少, like taking pride in 嫁出去時是處女?

那有什麼了不起的

good result 就是我跟我喜歡的女孩在一起, 兩情相悅. 這跟她之前做過幾次有差嗎? 我無法忍受因為這樣就和我喜歡的人不在一起. 也許男人都會介意這種事, but 要知道, 真愛難尋. 為了這點原因, 爲自己的選擇設限. 這時再是很可惜的一件事.


我的個人意見 :shrug:

[Nemo]

為什麼你覺得跟只有做過一次的女孩在一起才算是 good result?

這跟我媽那時代的思想其實差不了多少, like taking pride in 嫁出去時是處女?

那有什麼了不起的

good result 就是我跟我喜歡的女孩在一起, 兩情相悅. 這跟她之前做過幾次有差嗎? 我無法忍受因為這樣就和我喜歡的人不在一起. 也許男人都會介意這種事, but 要知道, 真愛難尋. 為了這點原因, 爲自己的選擇設限. 這時再是很可惜的一件事.


我的個人意見 :shrug:

???
my "it" was refering to "fairness" 跟 是不是處女有什麼關西阿...=.=a
beside i never said i will mind a lot if my gf is not V, i only said ideally i wish to have a V gf...
for the true love part...><...i kind of doubt the existen of that too...:P

[blueice]

???
my "it" was refering to "fairness" 跟 是不是處女有什麼關西阿...=.=a
beside i never said i will mind a lot if my gf is not V, i only said ideally i wish to have a V gf...
for the true love part...><...i kind of doubt the existen of that too...:P

我不是在說你有處女情節, 可是只有做過一次, 可以說是"類"處女情節

我所說的公平就是, 你自己沒有做到, 應該沒有權力要求要另一方做到吧

而你說公平不存在, 好男人有好結果是神話

我卻認為, 不要為自己設限, 女友做過幾次不重要, 重要的是互相真心喜歡.

不公平, 又怎樣? 能找到那一位, 勝過所有其他的東西吧.

as for true love...I dunno, I guess u will know when u meet one. :spin:

[water]

完全離題.... =..="

[Nemo]

我不是在說你有處女情節, 可是只有做過一次, 可以說是"類"處女情節

我所說的公平就是, 你自己沒有做到, 應該沒有權力要求要另一方做到吧

而你說公平不存在, 好男人有好結果是神話

我卻認為, 不要為自己設限, 女友做過幾次不重要, 重要的是互相真心喜歡.

不公平, 又怎樣? 能找到那一位, 勝過所有其他的東西吧.

as for true love...I dunno, I guess u will know when u meet one. :spin:

woot...=.=a
then wut is the definition of 處女...難道還分degree one and degree two oh..although i did heard gal telling me that she only did half...so in my mind i was thinking...how do u do only half...=.=a so does that mean she is half virgin???=.=a

beside i never 要求 my gf to be 處女, because that is something can't be 要求. it is more like either she is or she is not.

i think we are talking for different prospective.
im assuming that i already have a gf and i would wish she is V. So, is not like im dissing or anything. im just saying 我會希望.
and for you, i think u mean.
it doesn't matter wut she is as long two are in love. in that sense you don't care wut she is as long the feeling is there.

so, the ideas are kinda similar in a sense...i guess...
where im saying the fact is this, and i wish to have this more.
and you are saying, i want to have this relationship, and i dont care wut is in between.

[Nemo]

完全離題.... =..="

well, it is not like we are writting essay, so that we have to stick to the topic...=.=a
we can chat anything as long it is still related to V or not V i guess...^^

[water]

well, it is not like we are writting essay, so that we have to stick to the topic...=.=a
we can chat anything as long it is still related to V or not V i guess...^^

i dont even care...
it's like u guy's conversation thread or something..
wutever...

[blueice]

woot...=.=a
then wut is the definition of 處女...難道還分degree one and degree two oh..although i did heard gal telling me that she only did half...so in my mind i was thinking...how do u do only half...=.=a so does that mean she is half virgin???=.=a

beside i never 要求 my gf to be 處女, because that is something can't be 要求. it is more like either she is or she is not.

i think we are talking for different prospective.
im assuming that i already have a gf and i would wish she is V. So, is not like im dissing or anything. im just saying 我會希望.
and for you, i think u mean.
it doesn't matter wut she is as long two are in love. in that sense you don't care wut she is as long the feeling is there.

so, the ideas are kinda similar in a sense...i guess...
where im saying the fact is this, and i wish to have this more.
and you are saying, i want to have this relationship, and i dont care wut is in between.

我只是覺得, 如果你的 wish, 你自己無法做到的話, 那這樣的希望不公平. but of course, it's a freedom to wish. 只是你的 wish 可能會變成另一半的一種壓力. 她知道你比較希望什麼, 可是, yes, it's whether she is or she is not. If she is not, then 她可能會因此耿耿於懷吧. 這不是沒可能的事哦.

and yah, I undersand what u mean. 所謂的一半可能是還沒 home run, 半途而廢? :laugh: