[Forest]

說到入贅

在我身邊還真的發生過

那是我從小就認識的一個老朋友

去年初他21歲的時候入贅到一個富裕的家庭中

(聽到這消息時我還嚇了一大跳)

據我所知女方年紀比他大兩歲

且女方家中沒有男生

三個孩子都是女兒

因此女方父母就接納了我朋友

一來是他們真的很喜歡他

二來還可以把他當兒子養(這是真的= =)



後來他們夫妻倆移居美國(甚至不用工作)

Wii首發的時候他凌晨四點跑去賣場排隊

還特地打越洋電話問我要不要順便買一台(爆)



當初我問他為什麼會想入贅

且不怕外界有異樣的眼光

他只說他和女方真的彼此很相愛

女方父母也很疼他

他對女方父母懷有感恩的心情...



不曉得是不是我見世面不夠廣

入贅這種東西似乎是只會發生在有錢人身上的玩意兒吧

[Happy]

年紀輕輕就結婚
還不用工作
有錢真好~

[vega_105]

還不錯啊, 我也想入贅.

[Ghostling]

although my family didn't say anything, but i'm the oldest son of the oldest son of my grand parents. so i feel that i have an obligation to carry down the family line. 入贅 is not something i would think about unless my partner and I love each other very much and there is no other way to be together.

[ahyc84]

年紀輕輕就結婚
還不用工作
有錢真好~

還不錯啊, 我也想入贅.

agreed. lol.

although my family didn't say anything, but i'm the oldest son of the oldest son of my grand parents. so i feel that i have an obligation to carry down the family line. 入贅 is not something i would think about unless my partner and I love each other very much and there is no other way to be together.

I'm in a similar situation. I'm the oldest grandson. My younger cousin is the 長子的孫, but his mom kind of moved out on their own after a divorce. So the obligation is kind of mine now. I don't think i can even do that even if there's no other way to be together.

+ it's not like marriage is a MUST now :P sometimes things are hotter when you're not married

[Ghostling]

yea, in my case, i am the 長子的孫, so it's nearly out of the question.

and i'd feel like sh!t if i have to live on my wife all the time. maybe if i lose my job 1-2 months she helps me out is alright, but i'm really strict as to not be a "slipper king"

[ahyc84]

i do fancy being able to do nothing at all and have money. But i can't stand eating soft rice :P

[無限]

吃軟飯沒出息
If you are working under ur spouse's family corp and doing well then.. i guess its better than just going in and 當米蟲
Still
是男人就走出自己的ㄧ條路
是好是壞 doesnt matter

[Mucha]

等等 我覺得入贅不等於吃軟飯啊
但是妳朋友如果自己不自立的話 就容易惹人閒言閒語

但說實在的 啊他"嫁"的娘家就是有錢
有錢就不用他做事 其他人愛說什麼又怎樣?
人家有錢是他有他的福報啊

不要忌妒不要酸葡萄 自己多努力才是真的

[無限]

等等 我覺得入贅不等於吃軟飯啊
但是妳朋友如果自己不自立的話 就容易惹人閒言閒語

但說實在的 啊他"嫁"的娘家就是有錢
有錢就不用他做事 其他人愛說什麼又怎樣?
人家有錢是他有他的福報啊

不要忌妒不要酸葡萄 自己多努力才是真的

如果這人是故意挑"嫁"入豪門
那這應該是算吃軟飯吧
吃老婆家的飯


男人需要堅強點吧