If a guy likes a girl...

Jason604 · 09-18-2002

If a guy likes a girl, and enjoys his time with her and wants to further his relationship with her, should he just come out and say he likes the girl and ask her to be his gf? Or is it too much of a risk to take to damage this friendship?

appie*蘋 · 09-18-2002

i think he should just come out and tell her his feelings for her ba~
but i think its better to know that if she likes u or not first..
cuz their friendship will screw up if da girl doesnt feel the same way..

but then..me and my guy friend's friendship screwed up after we went out for like..3 dayz 一一 we didnt talk for a whoollle year
and this year we started talking..^^"" hm~
it really depends on the guy bah
if he isnt afraid of takin a risk of damaging tha friendship , then his got nothing to lose

﹀☆奶茶◆︿ · 09-18-2002

i think u should at least try~! maybe she will give u a big surprise! u never know!

Happy · 09-18-2002

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最初由﹀☆奶茶◆︿發表
i think u should at least try~! maybe she will give u a big surprise! u never know!

:good:

Jason604 · 09-19-2002

well... I'll see la... maybe it's not that bad taking a chance lor....

F1 · 09-19-2002

Just do it or u will miss the chance

CK · 09-19-2002

An unsuccessful one will certainly damage the relationsihp.

I would make sure. Talk with her friends. Talk with your friends. Talk with people who are experienced about relationships. (I'm not talking about playboy/playgirl, they are not what I consider experienced.) Lastly, use your own instinct.

Therefore, I would only ask her if I'm 100% sure it will be successful. :)

Jason604 · 09-19-2002

that's what I thought... but my friends said if you wait, you'll lose out... and they keep saying that to me... aiya...

RSX · 09-19-2002

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最初由 Jason604 發表
If a guy likes a girl, and enjoys his time with her and wants to further his relationship with her, should he just come out and say he likes the girl and ask her to be his gf? Or is it too much of a risk to take to damage this friendship?

hmmm... i will just ask....
if i am refused... then OK... let's be friends only...
if the answer is yes... then BINGO... let's be close friends or b/gf....

appie*蘋 · 09-19-2002

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hmmm... i will just ask....
if i am refused... then OK... let's be friends only...
if the answer is yes... then BINGO... let's be close friends or b/gf....

but ..if u get refused the frienship will becom really weird..
like..when u see each other itz like all awkward