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如題...
想問問看大家的看法....

[x2fishes]

我喜歡年齡比我大的女生...
之前喜歡過一個大我七歲的女生...

我喜歡成熟的女生...
雖然說年齡比較大,也不一定代表他會有實際年齡該有的成熟...
但是年齡比較小,似乎都就不成熟了...

能在戀愛中學習,是最美好的一件事...

有人喜歡在愛情中照顧的感覺...
有人喜歡在愛情中保護的感覺...
我個人比較喜歡呵護人的感覺...

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最初由 x2fishes 發表
我喜歡年齡比我大的女生...
之前喜歡過一個大我七歲的女生...

我喜歡成熟的女生...
雖然說年齡比較大,也不一定代表他會有實際年齡該有的成熟...
但是年齡比較小,似乎都就不成熟了...

能在戀愛中學習,是最美好的一件事...

有人喜歡在愛情中照顧的感覺...
有人喜歡在愛情中保護的感覺...
我個人比較喜歡呵護人的感覺...

你的意思是說....你喜歡個性成熟但是又要有小女人的性格可以讓你呵護...
是不是阿

:) :) :)

[x2fishes]

最初由 葡萄香檳 發表


你的意思是說....你喜歡個性成熟但是又要有小女人的性格可以讓你呵護...
是不是阿

:) :) :)

嗯... 最好是超成熟,又很會撒嬌...^^
聰明體貼善解人意...^^
遇過這麼樣的一個女生說...
可是那時我太幼稚,所以分手了..T_T

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最初由 x2fishes 發表


嗯... 最好是超成熟,又很會撒嬌...^^
聰明體貼善解人意...^^
遇過這麼樣的一個女生說...
可是那時我太幼稚,所以分手了..T_T

哇!!!
聽膩這樣說那個女生一定很完美....
那我到是很好奇她有沒有缺點阿...

[x2fishes]

最初由 葡萄香檳 發表


哇!!!
聽膩這樣說那個女生一定很完美....
那我到是很好奇她有沒有缺點阿...

一定是有的吧...
人沒有完美的...
但是他對我來說,或者說,當時的她和我現在回頭看當時的她...
還是很美好...

先追求自己,才能追求人...

[Miffylion]

Well, MOST of the time, moderately older girls (i.e. at least 22 or over) are more
mature, basically because they have more life experiences... of people, of things.
I personally like girls who are mature both in mind and looking, but just not TOO
OLD STYLE kind of looking... hehe.
BUT, if there are girls who are young (i.e. around 20-23 or even slightly younger) but
mature in thinking, I don't mind hanging around with them a bit.
I just don't enjoy spending time with girls who are too naive in thinking ,coz I find
it hard to communicate with them.
I had sometimes been told by some female friends that my requirement for girls (being
mature, being moderately independent YET also want to depend on me from time to time)
is being a bit "BIG MAN" (dai narm yun)... what does girls think?? Is what I want from
girls really impossible??? Just want someone who is able to be independent but would
want to be dependent on me from time to time, such that I know she DOES need me in her
life, somehow...
but my, I don't think I would like to have a GIRLFRIEND older than I do, unless I can
feel really catching up with her thinking (usually girls would think MORE MATURELY than
guys of same age....), but knowing mature girls as friends (even CLOSE friends) is surely
something I wouldn't mind doing.

[x2fishes]

最初由 Miffylion 發表
Well, MOST of the time, moderately older girls (i.e. at least 22 or over) are more
mature, basically because they have more life experiences... of people, of things.
I personally like girls who are mature both in mind and looking, but just not TOO
OLD STYLE kind of looking... hehe.
BUT, if there are girls who are young (i.e. around 20-23 or even slightly younger) but
mature in thinking, I don't mind hanging around with them a bit.
I just don't enjoy spending time with girls who are too naive in thinking ,coz I find
it hard to communicate with them.
I had sometimes been told by some female friends that my requirement for girls (being
mature, being moderately independent YET also want to depend on me from time to time)
is being a bit "BIG MAN" (dai narm yun)... what does girls think?? Is what I want from
girls really impossible??? Just want someone who is able to be independent but would
want to be dependent on me from time to time, such that I know she DOES need me in her
life, somehow...
but my, I don't think I would like to have a GIRLFRIEND older than I do, unless I can
feel really catching up with her thinking (usually girls would think MORE MATURELY than
guys of same age....), but knowing mature girls as friends (even CLOSE friends) is surely
something I wouldn't mind doing.

我想,男女平等的時代已經來了吧...
不只是女人想要獨立,想要和一個成熟的男人在一起,想和一個溫柔的男人在一起.
同時男人也是這麼想吧.
我想這不是所謂的"大男人",而只是不同思考形態的人互相吸引...
成熟的男人追求成熟的女人,成熟的女人追求男人...

另外妳所說的同年齡的女生會比較成熟...
這點我同意,但是有一個例外...
不知道男生有沒有這個感覺,從十九歲跳到二十歲,和從二十歲跳到二十一歲的那一個瞬間,好像世界都變的不一樣了...
我想某些男生就是在這一段時極速的心智成長吧...

[leenleen2002]

大家覺得.....
差 8歲算很多嗎??

[vega_105]

8歲是有一點小多歐...