[HopeBlue]

係我靚仔個時, 我已經覺得同一個鍾意0既人拍拖, 之後結婚, 雙宿雙棲係理所當然0既事, 拍拖0既最終目的係結婚, 而結婚係兩個人互相0既承諾, 承諾一生一世都永不離棄. 而我一直覺得, 依件事應該每個人都好樂意去做, 因為可以對住自己0既人一生一世喎, 點解唔做!

但係依三五七年, 我所見到0既係另一個風氣. 一個賣錶0既廣告提倡 "不在乎天長地久, 只在乎曾經擁有", 依家好多人都覺得 feeling 好緊要, 責任不重要. 我一直都不相信世界變, 直至我識之前個friend, 女仔!!
, 更令我驚訝! 佢話佢唔會結婚, 最多只係同居, 因為佢知道佢自己0既 feeling 會隨時間而變, 而萬一佢唔再鍾意身邊人, 可以唔駛咁煩去攪手續! 佢唔係飛女, 佢係一個好斯文女仔! 連學歷咁高0既女仔都有咁0既諗法, 令我對女仔真係另眼相看!

其實你地拍拖0既目的包唔包括結婚? 定你地根本唔覺得需要結婚?

定係其實我真係已經變0左古人, 唔適合係談戀愛?

如果終點不是結婚，那為何拍拖？
因為愛一個人，才會與他／她交往 ??
因為愛一個人，所以才想與他／她共度一生 ??

[草莓橘子派]

呃.....看不懂@@

[VLucifer]

when u love a person, just don't think too much about what will happen in the future... cuz if it's too far away, u'll start to have doubts if u think too much... just let things be and cherish who u have...

[silver_ghost]

I think marriage be4 getting I get into a relationship.....I think y bother if it is going to end up as tragedy.....but ppl think I am stupid

[sabsab]

I agree with both. I don't get into a relationship with a person if i can't even imagine him as a possible husband, or someone reliable enough to be a husband material. Why bother to waste his time and energy if you know you won't be with him for as long as he loves you? That's not fair to the guy, and you cannot cheat on your heart either. That's part of my consideration for accepting a guy. Some guys are very attractive, yet I cannot see them as a family guy so I wouldn't even bother (as if I have alot of time!). Some guys might not be as heroic as Spiderman, but I feel very comfortable to share my life with him. You see the difference between a lover and a genuine boyfriend here? Once you can accept a guy for the possibility of companionship for life, then you two are in good shape and no need to think too far. Good luck you all couples!

[VLucifer]

最初由 sabsab 發表
I agree with both. I don't get into a relationship with a person if i can't even imagine him as a possible husband, or someone reliable enough to be a husband material. Why bother to waste his time and energy if you know you won't be with him for as long as he loves you? That's not fair to the guy, and you cannot cheat on your heart either. That's part of my consideration for accepting a guy. Some guys are very attractive, yet I cannot see them as a family guy so I wouldn't even bother (as if I have alot of time!). Some guys might not be as heroic as Spiderman, but I feel very comfortable to share my life with him. You see the difference between a lover and a genuine boyfriend here? Once you can accept a guy for the possibility of companionship for life, then you two are in good shape and no need to think too far. Good luck you all couples!

well said^^

he/she's gotta be or someone reliable enough to be a husband/wife material lo~ that's a good point^^

[bigbigpooh]

i will never think that far...if i can't manage to do well now, how could i expect for a future....therefore, i will cherish what i have now and do the best i can...of course i will hope for the best, but i will still prepare for the worst...i will not do anything that will make myself regret...

[戒寂寞的女子]

我還不想想到那麼遠.....
so far, 我不是為了結婚而談戀愛.
我不想給自己或對方壓力..
而且, 我也還不到擔心那個的年紀.

[Crowcell]

if i decide to spend my life with someone, i will spend my life with her

married or not...it doesnt matter

marriage paper does not mean anything to me....so is the concept of marriage

[CK]

最初由 sabsab 發表
I agree with both. I don't get into a relationship with a person if i can't even imagine him as a possible husband, or someone reliable enough to be a husband material. Why bother to waste his time and energy if you know you won't be with him for as long as he loves you? That's not fair to the guy, and you cannot cheat on your heart either. That's part of my consideration for accepting a guy. Some guys are very attractive, yet I cannot see them as a family guy so I wouldn't even bother (as if I have alot of time!). Some guys might not be as heroic as Spiderman, but I feel very comfortable to share my life with him. You see the difference between a lover and a genuine boyfriend here? Once you can accept a guy for the possibility of companionship for life, then you two are in good shape and no need to think too far. Good luck you all couples!

woah!!! nice post!!! :good: :good: :good:


and i can see this is your 1st post. Welcome to My604 :)


BTW, i totally agree with you :)