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最初由 草莓橘子派 發表
逃兵?
....i am not@@
就算在慘我還是一樣會栽下去..
雖然到最後受傷的還是自己

你不怕那種心痛的感覺嗎﹖
em..也許你認為甜蜜的感覺足以抵銷那心痛的滋味吧...
(haha..reminds me of the econ.theory...
when marginal benefit > marginal cost...
then take the action... )

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最初由 Crowcell 發表
me

i dont wanna give out my heart just so that another girl can break it into pieces

one person is bound to get hurt in a relationship

always

em.. not always..
也許你之前遇人不淑吧...
下一個總會更好的! (<-- 欺騙/安慰自己的說法...哈哈)

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最初由 blue_moon 發表
不想再愛任何人了
才剛失戀
那痛還沒好...

sad to hear that.. but..
you'll always get over with it!
Take care!

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最初由 Changer801 發表
我想我有時候會吧...那是和道德有關吧...有男朋友的人總是會約束自己不能再次深陷但...好難...誰叫我們都年輕呢...我最害怕falling in love le..尤其自己已經有了另一半...妳有過這種感覺嗎?挺罪惡感的...but...有時候回想起來...hmm...pretty sweet...

no... 當我喜歡/愛一個人的時候
我不會把其他人放在心上..except my other 1/2
也許是因為我很難真正喜歡上一個人吧
所以當我真的愛上一個人的時候
這個人必定是最好的 (在我的標準來說)
既然已經找到最好了
為甚麼還要找別人呢﹖
我愛上一個人時
我會給予對方百份百的尊重
會憐惜﹐珍惜﹐愛護對方
一段感情不只是感覺而已
還包括了責任...

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最初由 bigbigpooh 發表


yes..me too la...i know its wrong to fall in love with another guy...but its hard to control....i try it very hard...

.. don't know what to say..
just hope that your problem will be solved a.s.a.p
so that there won't be anymore 傷害
no matter to yourself, to your other 1/2.
or to the new guy

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最初由 HopeBlue 發表
因為她有了愛人。。。。可是不是我。。。

無奈...i can understand that..
what else can we say besides "that's life"
oh well... don't 沉溺於悲傷中..
think it the other way..
you can start a new life now!

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最初由 Crowcell 發表


no offence...

but...i think that's BS...

it's a fancy way of saying "i wanna have free sex"

not necessary free sex..
coz some ppl in nowadays do prefer 神交

[water]

not really..
whatever happens i am still me~
in love or not~^^*
dont really matter..
the pain..the hurt..the scares..
u get over it...
so why fear love?
where ever that past pain came from..
it's in the past..so just let it go..
and move on..~^^*
dont be a slave to ur past exprements..
not every love story begains the same way or end in the same way...
and u really should not hold urself back just becuz of urself...
be who u are...someone is bound to find out everything abt u is what he/she needs~

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最初由 |3uggiE 發表
i think i am..

- ppl are born to live as 個體 and when 2 ppl fall in love its going against it, 約束 is just attraction that will 鬆弛 like elastic band.. matter of time

- ppl are too selfish to put their "other half" on the first place

- there'll always be that "somebody" one can't forget, maybe its just an illusion, 得不到的永遠是最好的, or just past love that can't even compare with the current one

- being pessimistic -_-.. no trust.. 想佔有...

your 1st reason reminds me of what 柏拉圖 said

"原來的人都是兩性人﹐自從上帝把人一劈為二﹐
所有的這一半都在蒼茫人世上尋找那一半.
愛情﹐就是我們渴求著失去了的那一半自己."
---柏拉圖 <<對話錄>>

your 2nd reason - not all people are too selfish... individual differences still exist

your 3rd reason - em... what if 最初的愛人就是最後的愛人?
although quite impossible in nowadays..
but there are always exceptions..

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最初由 water 發表
not really..
whatever happens i am still me~
in love or not~^^*
dont really matter..
the pain..the hurt..the scares..
u get over it...
so why fear love?
where ever that past pain came from..
it's in the past..so just let it go..
and move on..~^^*
dont be a slave to ur past exprements..
not every love story begains the same way or end in the same way...
and u really should not hold urself back just becuz of urself...
be who u are...someone is bound to find out everything abt u is what he/she needs~

some ppl are 懦夫with low self-esteem..
they just don't have the bravery/confidence to
overcome their mental obstacles..
so they're always chained by their
past experiences and other 比不上其他人的條件