[water]

最初由 A8633 發表


some ppl are 懦夫with low self-esteem..
they just don't have the bravery/confidence to
overcome their mental obstacles..
so they're always chained by their
past experiences and other 比不上其他人的條件

i know what u mean..^^*
it's human instinc to dwell in the past..
but still..everyone does get over it..
sooner or later..
but if u realized that ur life isnt controled by love..
then it'd be sooner then later~

[monkie]

me~
'coz last relationship hurt me bad, and still recovering.......
so, don't wanna fall in love again, don't wanna get hurt~
and also I think I'm one of those ppl who don't know how to love, or just simply CAN'T love~

[Changer801]

You have a bf le ma??...is that why you feel guilty?^^hehe...sigh...I guess we are girls thatz why we have that sense of guilt...sigh...

[Changer801]

最初由 bigbigpooh 發表


yes..me too la...i know its wrong to fall in love with another guy...but its hard to control....i try it very hard...

You have a bf le ma?Is that why you have that sense of guilt?sigh...we are girls...thatz why we have that sense of morality...we are always faithful to our love ones...is that bad?!

[草莓橘子派]

最初由 A8633 發表


你不怕那種心痛的感覺嗎﹖
em..也許你認為甜蜜的感覺足以抵銷那心痛的滋味吧...
(haha..reminds me of the econ.theory...
when marginal benefit > marginal cost...
then take the action... )

當然怕啊..
但是就因為怕所以逃避嗎?
這不是解決的辦法..
所以
我還是陷下去了@@
逃避只會變更懦弱而已....

[A8633]

最初由 water 發表


i know what u mean..^^*
it's human instinc to dwell in the past..
but still..everyone does get over it..
sooner or later..
but if u realized that ur life isnt controled by love..
then it'd be sooner then later~

hea.. true!

[A8633]

最初由 草莓橘子派 發表



當然怕啊..
但是就因為怕所以逃避嗎?
這不是解決的辦法..
所以
我還是陷下去了@@
逃避只會變更懦弱而已....

haha....
不逃避並不代表一定要陷下去...

[A8633]

最初由 monkie 發表
I think I'm one of those ppl who don't know how to love, or just simply CAN'T love~

人不就是從痛苦中學習和長大的嗎﹖
i believe you'll learn what real love is in the near future..

[monkie]

最初由 A8633 發表


人不就是從痛苦中學習和長大的嗎﹖
i believe you'll learn what real love is in the near future..

I believe there's love, but not true love........
basically I just don't think there's such thing as "true love" exists in the world la~
and.......
sometimes I'd think 我似乎不懂得愛人, 或是根本不想去愛~~~

[Mr. 7777777]

Me...
I cannot tell what is a love feeling and what is not anymore....