wuts ur way of keeping ur relationship together[求助] - 第2頁

benyaoguai · 04-12-2003

SCREW HIM =.= GUYS ALWAYS WANT MORE FROM GIRLS..
ALL BULLSHIT..
I DON'T SEE THEM PUTTING OUT THAT MUCH

Sea of Love · 04-12-2003

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最初由 bayb33_gur1 發表

aww thx but i kinda have to obey him bcuz I mean I WAS the one tat messed up the relationship and it was all good before and i just keep on doing immature stuff and now i think i deserve it, i know it looks like i like him more but hes giving me time to make up for everything tat i have done, i mean i should use it wisely while i still have the chance but the problem is i dont know how , i need to do some sweet stuff but mah mind is like blank right now , i think its just right now tat im obeying, i mean i do get mad too easly and i fight about stupid stuff, im learning to trust him , and i think im doing pretty good, but i need help on doing the sweet stuff, like calling him 12am and telling him tat i love him hahaha im just playing im tlaking about sweet and romantic stuff so if u know any , TELL ME

Well...
Is it okay to tell me what u have done?
Like examples?
Cuz when it comes to when u like a person
U'll think everything is ur fault...
U know what I'm saying?
So I kinda need to know what u have done...
And if I don't quite think it's ur fault
I wouldn't really suggest u to...do stuff for him
I don't really think doing sweet or romantic stuff will make a person like u
If he likes u...no matter what u do...he feels sweet
If he doesn't...no matter what u do...he feels nothing
That's what I learnt from my experience

Sea of Love · 04-12-2003

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最初由 benyaoguai 發表
SCREW HIM =.= GUYS ALWAYS WANT MORE FROM GIRLS..
ALL BULLSHIT..
I DON'T SEE THEM PUTTING OUT THAT MUCH

U shouldn't say guy"S"
Every guy is different

irene408 · 04-12-2003

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最初由 bayb33_gur1 發表

he told me not to be tripping out and shiet, so now im always obeying him, like i dont get jealous anymore and im almost like oh ok yeah tats good . well im doing this its bcuz im the one tat mess our relationship so i think i should not always be tripping out and stuff, and he told me tat i need show him tat i like him,and im trying but i cant just start kissing him and be so close to him all of a sudden , u know, its weird so i dont know what to do

告訴他... 愛情是要雙方共同經營的
他只會一昧的告訴你, 說你不夠在乎他
那他呢?? 他這樣就較在乎妳嗎?
你們兩個再一起, 一定是都想給對方一個機會
他這樣子, 是不是對妳很不公平!?
誰說之前做錯事的人現在就一定要當小狗
告訴他, 不是你不想表現
而是他的距離太遠.. 讓人想親近都不行
在不然就直接問他....
妳已經很努力了... 就直接問他到底要怎麼樣他在會滿意!?

TurkeyRules32 · 04-13-2003

buy a pair of necklaces/bracelets , and put your name on the male and his name on the female one.

make some food/cake or write a short poem for him.

those are simple stuff, but if a girl does it, it would be kinda special , plus i dont think doing those things would put you in a much lower position in a relationship.

good luck:)

sabsab · 04-13-2003

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最初由 TurkeyRules32 發表
buy a pair of necklaces/bracelets , and put your name on the male and his name on the female one.

make some food/cake or write a short poem for him.

those are simple stuff, but if a girl does it, it would be kinda special , plus i dont think doing those things would put you in a much lower position in a relationship.

good luck:)

yeah, from my experience, i make food for my bf and he feels sweet ah, even though i know it's not that great tasting sometimes~

and, i agree with the message above that
"If he likes u...no matter what u do...he feels sweet
If he doesn't...no matter what u do...he feels nothing"
It is nothing but the truth. If u keep on obeying him instead of following your true feelings, you will feel very tired. You don't even feel like kissing him anymore, and you should now know how much true love is involved betwene you too now. You keep on saying that u're the one that messed up the relationship before... so you are doing this because u wanna make up your guilty feeling. Forget him girl, a good man won't do this to his gf. Besides, you're not just a flirty lover, you're his gf.

precious98 · 04-13-2003

talk to him on the phone more, ask him out and just talk to him about stuff...people become closer through talkin

Cola · 04-13-2003

i have the same case as urs .....
so i break up with him
because he does not care anything about me ....
but u have to be strong and show him that u loves him very much..... M_M

Majestic · 04-13-2003

chat alot, borrow stuff from him, email him alot, then gradually talk to him on da phone, then invite him out!

RSX · 04-13-2003

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最初由 bayb33_gur1 發表
i need help, i need to know new ways to geting closer to mah boi and show him tat i love him, help help 3Q

if he is already ur boyfriend...
maybe u should try to write him letters everyday... :)
try to be jealous (if u usually don't) if some girls poke him or whatever.... of course don't push it too far.... :)

and................ i don't know....
many opinions from girls will be better?