[A8633]

最初由 water 發表


that's kinda wut happened to me..
i got hurt once..so i choose to be loved by someone..
but then...knowing that i was hurting someone felt even worst then myself hurting..
so i went back to choosing loving someone..
but it dont matter now..
i am in the relationship where both members return eachother's love..:)

you're very lucky!
coz not every couple's relationship is prefectly balanced.
congradulations! ^^

em.. i dont' know if it's becoz of individual difference or what.. even though i was deeply hurt in my previous relationship.. i still have the courage to love someone ..still have hope towards it... and still willing to give out... of coz i'm afraid to be hurt again.. but this kind of fear is not enough to outweight my hope for love ba.. or.. maybe i just 不會吸取教訓 at all?? hahha

[Jennifa]

最初由 qazwsx1014 發表
被愛是幸福
愛人是痛苦

uh huh.. i think that is true...

[abcdefghijk]

我選擇被愛。

當我愛一個人的時候﹐如果她沒有給我足夠的回報的時候...我會很灰心。
當一個愛我的人對我好的時候﹐ 我會很開心然後對她很好。

[A8633]

最初由 abcdefghijk 發表
我選擇被愛。

當我愛一個人的時候﹐如果她沒有給我足夠的回報的時候...我會很灰心。
當一個愛我的人對我好的時候﹐ 我會很開心然後對她很好。

那你究竟是愛她本人
還是愛那種被別人重視﹐疼愛的感覺???

[Smellyt0fu]

It's a balanced thing... Sure if someone loves you more, it gives u that security that they won't go looking for someone else. Lucky for me, it's a balanced thing though my gf is more "sticky" than I am which gives me lots of security that she won't get on with someone else. But then again, I'm in a more advanced stage than many of you guys here.

[A8633]

最初由 Smellyt0fu 發表
It's a balanced thing... Sure if someone loves you more, it gives u that security that they won't go looking for someone else. Lucky for me, it's a balanced thing though my gf is more "sticky" than I am which gives me lots of security that she won't get on with someone else. But then again, I'm in a more advanced stage than many of you guys here.

how advance is your stage??

[Smellyt0fu]

Advanced as in close to marriage... that's what I mean.. not advanced as in complex.

[A8633]

最初由 Smellyt0fu 發表
Advanced as in close to marriage... that's what I mean.. not advanced as in complex.

true...
but I think advance can be mentally as well?
coz for me... whenever i start a relationship...
i hope i can made till the very end (marriage)..
coz if i choose to be with him..
then of coz i must love him alot...
as i'm not the type of person who starts a relationship easily.

[Smellyt0fu]

Yeah, it can be... still, there are many things to consider when you are about to get married such as their family etc etc... not just a 2 person thing. If their parents are really troublesome, then it'll be hard to keep that going.

[A8633]

最初由 Smellyt0fu 發表
Yeah, it can be... still, there are many things to consider when you are about to get married such as their family etc etc... not just a 2 person thing. If their parents are really troublesome, then it'll be hard to keep that going.

true~
coz even though both are mentally prepared for marriage.... and yet the factors of the environment will definitely affect the plan...