[A8633]

最初由 mini_apple 發表
以前覺得... 愛一個人比較幸福...
但... 我變了...
我變的自私...
我希望被愛

可以了解....

[A8633]

最初由 |3uggiE 發表
我真希望我愛的人可以愛我阿....T-T""

that's what all ppl wish.....sigh~

[A8633]

最初由 Othullo 發表
選擇被愛不是自私！ 愛一個不愛你的人，而冷落愛你的人， 那是自私， 3 人都不幸福。 選擇愛你的人，然後也給他愛，至少1人幸福！

你說的也有道理﹐
不過...
不愛一個愛你的人不一定是自私
有些人希望能夠忠於自己的心意
同時也不希望給對方一個假希望

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最初由 JKL 發表
被愛被愛.....

how come?

[A8633]

最初由 三三三三三 發表



我覺得在一段relationship 的開始﹐ person A 喜歡 person B 比 person B 喜歡 person A 多 or vice versa 可以算是正常﹐始終只是一段關係的開始﹐ 其中一方有所保留是可以理解。 所以我不會說 “愛” 或 “被愛”。 當大家比較了解的時候﹐ the like ratio should be more balanced.


你怎樣define兩情相悅 ﹖ 你肯定雙方都同樣地喜歡對方嗎﹖ the person A B thing still applies here.

兩情相悅 really does happen ga..
i've seen lots of cases...
sometimes these things don't need to be spoken out directly.... 一個眼神 一個表情 就能把一切都交代了...
一切盡在不言中嘛....and then they just 自自然然 get together

[A8633]

最初由 三三三三三 發表
這種事很難說﹐ 不能像數學般來算呢。

sure. i agree with that

[三三三三三]

最初由 A8633 發表


兩情相悅 really does happen ga..
i've seen lots of cases...
sometimes these things don't need to be spoken out directly.... 一個眼神 一個表情 就能把一切都交代了...
一切盡在不言中嘛....and then they just 自自然然 get together

u got me wrong.


the pt of my msg was even it's 兩情相悅, there's still chance that the guy likes the gal more or vice versa. even the person who choose to 被愛 rather than to 付出﹐ doesn't mean he/she has no feeling to the other party.

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最初由 三三三三三 發表




u got me wrong.


the pt of my msg was even it's 兩情相悅, there's still chance that the guy likes the gal more or vice versa. even the person who choose to 被愛 rather than to 付出﹐ doesn't mean he/she has no feeling to the other party.

sure there's such a chance

[water]

最初由 A8633 發表


i think for the girls..
individual differences do exist..
take me as an example..
the diff. between being loved and loving someone is very big.... i just can't being with someone whom i have no strong feeling at all....
i don't know if this attitude will still take place 10 years later.. but at least for now.. i prefer to love someone rather than being loved

so ture..
i feel violated when i get touched intimatly by a guy who i have no special feelings towards...
and when u are with a guy who supposibly is ur bf..there's no doubt that there will be intimate touches..such as hugging or kissing...

[water]

最初由 A8633 發表


you're very lucky!
coz not every couple's relationship is prefectly balanced.
congradulations! ^^

em.. i dont' know if it's becoz of individual difference or what.. even though i was deeply hurt in my previous relationship.. i still have the courage to love someone ..still have hope towards it... and still willing to give out... of coz i'm afraid to be hurt again.. but this kind of fear is not enough to outweight my hope for love ba.. or.. maybe i just 不會吸取教訓 at all?? hahha

well...i dont know..maybe it's cuz u got hurt once...
see..for me i didnt choose another path cuz i got hurt once..it was becuz i got hurt repeatedly..
yeah after my first hurtful relationship, i still had hope for love...it wasnt until the 3 time...i give up on giving and wanted to receive for once...
at one point of my life i had almost given up on love..
and thank god i didnt..
or i doubt i'd be as happy as i am rite now~