[water]

最初由 三三三三三 發表




u got me wrong.


the pt of my msg was even it's 兩情相悅, there's still chance that the guy likes the gal more or vice versa. even the person who choose to 被愛 rather than to 付出﹐ doesn't mean he/she has no feeling to the other party.

but there's still a chance...though maybe little...that both parties love eachother equally..
but then i cant prove that..cuz there's no magical math equation that can calculate out how much one loves another..

[A8633]

最初由 water 發表


so ture..
i feel violated when i get touched intimatly by a guy who i have no special feelings towards...
and when u are with a guy who supposibly is ur bf..there's no doubt that there will be intimate touches..such as hugging or kissing...

YESSSS SOOOO TRUE!!!
all my goosebumps come out whenever i imagine having intimate actions with someone whom i don't have strong feelings towards!! :shakehead

[A8633]

最初由 water 發表

well...i dont know..maybe it's cuz u got hurt once...
see..for me i didnt choose another path cuz i got hurt once..it was becuz i got hurt repeatedly..
yeah after my first hurtful relationship, i still had hope for love...it wasnt until the 3 time...i give up on giving and wanted to receive for once...
at one point of my life i had almost given up on love..
and thank god i didnt..
or i doubt i'd be as happy as i am rite now~

wa.. you're so lucky la...
well... i got hurt more than once...
sigh.. i wonder when will i ever stop repeating da same mistake over and over again....:cry:

[XtraOrdinary]

最初由 A8633 發表


wa.. you're so lucky la...
well... i got hurt more than once...
sigh.. i wonder when will i ever stop repeating da same mistake over and over again....:cry:

*sigh* I got hurt once, and I don't even know if I can move on anymore. If I have this keep on repeating...... man I don't even know what I would do!!!

But anyways, getting love... isn't that the most precious thing ever

[A8633]

最初由 XtraOrdinary 發表



*sigh* I got hurt once, and I don't even know if I can move on anymore. If I have this keep on repeating...... man I don't even know what I would do!!!

But anyways, getting love... isn't that the most precious thing ever

sigh.. 同是天涯淪落人....:cry:
i always doubt if i can move on anymore too.....
and am always telling and reminding myself that there are lots of important things in life... and yet... sometimes i just fall back easily ... and sometimes i feel that i'm over with it... this kind of feeling come and haunt me once in a while.. sigh.. when can i completely over with it..@@... 唉!

[RSX]

最初由 A8633 發表
有些人交往是為了那種被愛的感覺
因此就算自己對對方的感覺並不是那麼深
也會願意跟對方交往
就是因為他/她喜歡那種被別人疼愛的感覺
可是有些人則無法跟一個自己不太愛的人交往
寧願選擇做那個付出比較多的人
如果可以讓你選﹐
你會選擇愛人(付出比較多﹐收穫比較少)
還是被愛(付出比較少﹐收穫比較多)﹖

被愛比較多...


以前付出太多... all ended up like shxt...

[A8633]

最初由 RSX 發表


被愛比較多...


以前付出太多... all ended up like shxt...

sigh.. i'm afraid that someday i might choose to be loved instead of loving somebody else...

[XtraOrdinary]

最初由 A8633 發表


sigh.. 同是天涯淪落人....:cry:
i always doubt if i can move on anymore too.....
and am always telling and reminding myself that there are lots of important things in life... and yet... sometimes i just fall back easily ... and sometimes i feel that i'm over with it... this kind of feeling come and haunt me once in a while.. sigh.. when can i completely over with it..@@... 唉!

Yeah.... I'm right there with you...
Maybe we are not suppose to get over it, but rather have it as part of us always. I just hope it doesn't stand in the way of finding the next happiness.

[i am god]

最初由 A8633 發表


YESSSS SOOOO TRUE!!!
all my goosebumps come out whenever i imagine having intimate actions with someone whom i don't have strong feelings towards!! :shakehead

Should I or should I not say it? :x

[RSX]

最初由 A8633 發表


sigh.. i'm afraid that someday i might choose to be loved instead of loving somebody else...

hmm... well....
don't choose to be loved until u feel bad about paying without asking for returns....


it's not like i CHOOSE the way of love....
it's more like i am scared of my old ways.... i want to but just can't....
so now it TURNS OUT to be choosing to be loved more than love someone....


maybe someday my girl can pull me back to my old self and feel confident to love her more and more till my best....