[water]

最初由 A8633 發表


wa.. you're so lucky la...
well... i got hurt more than once...
sigh.. i wonder when will i ever stop repeating da same mistake over and over again....:cry:

awww..it's ok..
u'll find urs one day..:)

[i am god]

最初由 A8633 發表


sigh.. i'm afraid that someday i might choose to be loved instead of loving somebody else...

Why would you be afraid of that?
It's not a bad thing to protect yourself...?

[A8633]

最初由 XtraOrdinary 發表


Yeah.... I'm right there with you...
Maybe we are not suppose to get over it, but rather have it as part of us always. I just hope it doesn't stand in the way of finding the next happiness.

em.. for me.. it's been standing in my way of finding the next happiness... and now i just soooo damnnn wanna overcome this obstacle.

[A8633]

最初由 i am god 發表


Should I or should I not say it? :x

:shakehead

[A8633]

最初由 RSX 發表
hmm... well....
don't choose to be loved until u feel bad about paying without asking for returns....


it's not like i CHOOSE the way of love....
it's more like i am scared of my old ways.... i want to but just can't....
so now it TURNS OUT to be choosing to be loved more than love someone....


maybe someday my girl can pull me back to my old self and feel confident to love her more and more till my best....

i guess you've been deeply hurt...
and everyone's recovery speed is different... some ppl take more time.. some ppl take less time.. .
some ppl have very good memory.. (remember the pain with great details)... but some don't...
so i guess... you just need more time.... and your gf needs more time too... to let her show you that she does deserve you to give out the whole heart.. which indeed makes you have more confidence in the relationship... and therefore.. you'll once again get back most of the "OLD self" back again...

[A8633]

最初由 water 發表


awww..it's ok..
u'll find urs one day..:)

nah... i honestly feel that my chance of being a 老姑婆 is even higher than before now.. muhahahah :biglaugh:

[A8633]

最初由 i am god 發表

Why would you be afraid of that?
It's not a bad thing to protect yourself...?

... em.. to me.. it only means that.. the guy that i'm with... he isn't someone whom i really really really love... which is quite a 遺憾 ba...???

[阿苦]

最初由 抹香鯨魚 發表
雖然大家可能都覺得被愛是幸福的
可是我覺得愛人更幸福...
能有一個人讓你朝思暮想,也是一種難得的幸福喔
:)

是沒錯啊...
可是相對的.. 這樣也會很痛苦 @@
尤其當你知道他並不是拿麼在乎你的時候

[阿苦]

最初由 water 發表


that's kinda wut happened to me..
i got hurt once..so i choose to be loved by someone..
but then...knowing that i was hurting someone felt even worst then myself hurting..
so i went back to choosing loving someone..
but it dont matter now..
i am in the relationship where both members return eachother's love..:)

that's the best~ :good:
祝福你們囉~ :biglaugh:

[A8633]

最初由 阿苦 發表

是沒錯啊...
可是相對的.. 這樣也會很痛苦 @@
尤其當你知道他並不是拿麼在乎你的時候

absolutely correct!