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舊 05-01-2003   #11
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別再說了,我前陣子跟我bf分手ㄉ原因
就是因為他說他爸媽不喜歡我 對我有意見
真是.....!@#$%^&*....情何以堪

如果你真ㄉ愛你另一半
你就會幫者他在自己父母面前製照好形象
教他如何討他們開心 告訴他自己爸媽喜歡什麼有什麼禁忌
then this situation would never happen
ooo.....poor u..


i know..bf/gf should try to make u look good in front of their parents...
or at lest tell u wut are their likes and dislikes..
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舊 05-01-2003   #12
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我可能比較消極ㄅ...
如果我爸媽不喜歡他我就會有壓力
然後不知不覺就想要分手ㄌ
我知道這樣對他很不公平
but I can't control my feelings >_<
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thatz wat happened to me -__-
I broke up w/ my ex cuz my parents' disagreement.
壓力很大
這樣的戀情很累
我要的是輕鬆幸福甜蜜
所以就分手了
其實我覺得我的選擇沒有錯
因為家人是一輩子的事
男朋友也很有可以在未來的某天為了其他什麼事情分手
為了這個和家人鬧得不愉快
不值得
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舊 05-01-2003   #13
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mm...
i wont broke up if my parents hates him...~
my mom used to dislike my ex alot..~
but.. she didnt say much either~
as long as i like him~
thats fine~
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舊 05-02-2003   #14
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However in the past, when my parents really hated the gf I had then, then I would really seriously think about breaking up. Well, those they really oppose I did... but this one whilst my dad thinks (ONLY) that she's short ... that's the only stupid criticism that he has so that means we don't "match".


One time he indirectly says when friends are around that Malaysians are ugly people etc etc (coz my gf is Malaysian)... of course I shouldn't be so sensitive to these things but I know he says that to attack my gf and nothing else.


Anyway, he'll have to accept the fact that she'd be the one (unless something major major happens that splits us but I highly doubt it) so I'm not so fussed...


But I do believe parents do have some sorta influence on your choice in bf/gf because they do have to face the parents on both sides sooner or later and if it's not relatively a good relationship, then it'll affect your relationship with your bf/gf. That's my 2c worth.
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舊 05-02-2003   #15
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thatz wat happened to me -__-
I broke up w/ my ex cuz my parents' disagreement.
壓力很大
這樣的戀情很累
我要的是輕鬆幸福甜蜜
所以就分手了
其實我覺得我的選擇沒有錯
因為家人是一輩子的事
男朋友也很有可以在未來的某天為了其他什麼事情分手
為了這個和家人鬧得不愉快
不值得
跟我感覺是一樣的
不過如果哪天我真的愛他愛到某種程度了
我想我會為自己爭取吧...
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