Short Term Attraction:
- Improve your outer appearance. It's always good to look nice and pretty. Even if you are useless, you are still good for decoration.
Middle Term Attraction:
- Be talented. Don't be useless. Why are they attracted to you? Because you have something they don't have, so they still have use for you. That's why you are still sticking around.
Long Term Attraction:
- Work on your inner self. Why are they attracted to you? Beats me. They just like you or love you.