How do girls know they don't love their bf anymore? - 第5頁

water · 05-04-2003

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最初由 XtraOrdinary 發表
*sigh* I loved her more than anything I have ever known... and she turned around and ditched me... If that is chilldish, than I have nothing more to say [/b]

that's not wut i mean..@_@
u know some guys..they act very childish in front of their gf...
it's realy cute..if i like the guy..but if not..it's just plain annoying..
so when i said "when it is no longer ok for him to act childish" i mean...i feel annoyed by him..@_@

and also..why dwell in the past?
she left u cuz she thinks (i cant know for sure) she dont love u anymore..
so isnt that better? i mean why would u want to be with someone who no longer love u?
why waste all ur love and energy on someone who dont want it?
come on man...dont be so bitter...she didnt dicht u...she made a choice..and to be honest..i think she made the right choice...(i mean that in a good way)
if she had forced herself to stay...i think u'd be less happy then u are rite now..
of course..i cant say anything for sure...
good luck..:)
there's a good side to everything..just look for it..:)

XtraOrdinary · 05-04-2003

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最初由 water 發表

that's not wut i mean..@_@
u know some guys..they act very childish in front of their gf...
it's realy cute..if i like the guy..but if not..it's just plain annoying..
so when i said "when it is no longer ok for him to act childish" i mean...i feel annoyed by him..@_@

and also..why dwell in the past?
she left u cuz she thinks (i cant know for sure) she dont love u anymore..
so isnt that better? i mean why would u want to be with someone who no longer love u?
why waste all ur love and energy on someone who dont want it?
come on man...dont be so bitter...she didnt dicht u...she made a choice..and to be honest..i think she made the right choice...(i mean that in a good way)
if she had forced herself to stay...i think u'd be less happy then u are rite now..
of course..i cant say anything for sure...
good luck..:)
there's a good side to everything..just look for it..:)

*sigh* Ok la.... I understand.... What more can I say...

阿苦 · 05-04-2003

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最初由 XtraOrdinary 發表

The only constant thing is change... what a paradox. I guess I sort of know that things change, people change, and people's feeling towards each other change... but isn't that scary? I mean... how can I be certain of anything? (the only certainty is that nothing is certain?)
Well, don't worry, my sentences are not making too much sense neither... I can read chinese you know, I just don't like to type it.... too lazy

well... we can never be certain about anything
so the best way is just to be ready for changes to occur anytime...

XtraOrdinary · 05-04-2003

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最初由阿苦發表

well... we can never be certain about anything
so the best way is just to be ready for changes to occur anytime...

Understood... I will be better prepared next time... but who was going to get prepared for this when things were going well???

阿苦 · 05-04-2003

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最初由 XtraOrdinary 發表

Understood... I will be better prepared next time... but who was going to get prepared for this when things were going well???

sigh... I guess it's just easy to say and hard to do @@
如果是我的話...
當我開始感覺到另外一半態度開始有轉變
而我也跟他溝通過卻沒有一個結果的話
我想.. 我會強迫自己慢慢把感情收回來
至少這樣到他真的完全不要我的時候
我會比較快痊癒
因為會有緩衝期...

XtraOrdinary · 05-04-2003

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最初由阿苦發表

sigh... I guess it's just easy to say and hard to do @@
如果是我的話...
當我開始感覺到另外一半態度開始有轉變
而我也跟他溝通過卻沒有一個結果的話
我想.. 我會強迫自己慢慢把感情收回來
至少這樣到他真的完全不要我的時候
我會比較快痊癒
因為會有緩衝期...

緩衝期.... that is one luxury that I did not have. Feels kind of like dumping a bucket of water.... how do I get the water back after its dumped? (aiyo.... I must sound like the most bitter man in the world hahahaha) :shakehead

阿苦 · 05-04-2003

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最初由 XtraOrdinary 發表

緩衝期.... that is one luxury that I did not have. Feels kind of like dumping a bucket of water.... how do I get the water back after its dumped? (aiyo.... I must sound like the most bitter man in the world hahahaha) :shakehead

@@ I know it's hard to do..
sigh.. maybe I haven't loved as deep as you did...
that's why I could still pull my love back
all I can do is.. wish you can get over it soon @@

XtraOrdinary · 05-04-2003

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最初由阿苦發表

@@ I know it's hard to do..
sigh.. maybe I haven't loved as deep as you did...
that's why I could still pull my love back
all I can do is.. wish you can get over it soon @@

Hahaha don't say that maybe I am just not as emotionaly strong as you are. But after this is over I should be alot better ba!!! Time heals, and now I definitely have alot of time.

bayb33_gur1 · 05-04-2003

when u start feel like u wanna make out wit someone else than him , then i guess its time to....*sniff*

XtraOrdinary · 05-04-2003

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最初由 bayb33_gur1 發表
when u start feel like u wanna make out wit someone else than him , then i guess its time to....*sniff*

Wow... thats a scary thought...... (shudders)