[Cola]

最初由 IS Girl 發表


sometimes it's not a matter of "like it or not"...~~


think about it...if u care...it doesn't matter who made the 1st step...wat if he never made a 1st step and u never made a 1st step...does that mean u 2 will not talk again ever and just leave things the way they are now? this is just a way of "ignoring" things instead of "solving" things...u know...~~~


I agree w/ XtraOrdinary that u should listen to your heart wat you really wanna do...people can only give as much advice as they can...and YOU are still the one who is able to solve the problem...:)

Ai...
so sad now...
no more comment ~

[JKL]

relationship is between two ppl so don't let any stupid idea to effect ur relationship such as guys should call gal, those kinda of stuff they are stupid ideas lo..^^

from wut i know some ppl can stay in relationship without contact too much but some needs to talk every day(like me..sticky.^^)

if he didn't come to find u then u should go find him but don't try to show up infront of his house without info him (i tried that before and the result wan't too good :P )

if u like him then tell him how u feel and u want him to care about u more (that is wut i did and it works good but talking skill is very important in this one)

if already he doesn't like u anymore then i guess there shouldn't be much for me to tell u ba....

any way add oil la this is just my few little advice but does it helps u i don't know just take it as suggestion lo.....^^

[IS Girl]

yeah...everyone who replied cuz they wanted to help u out...but u r the one that can do the action!!


Communication is very important...(i learned this from my bf)...it is always best to tell each other wat u feel...it is very hard for them to just "know" how u feel...~~~ just work it out slowly...everything has a way out...u just need to discover it!!


CHEER UP GIRL!!!!:)
GOOD LUCK too...~~don't worry too muc about things...

[Cola]

最初由 JKL 發表
relationship is between two ppl so don't let any stupid idea to effect ur relationship such as guys should call gal, those kinda of stuff they are stupid ideas lo..^^

from wut i know some ppl can stay in relationship without contact too much but some needs to talk every day(like me..sticky.^^)

if he didn't come to find u then u should go find him but don't try to show up infront of his house without info him (i tried that before and the result wan't too good :P )

if u like him then tell him how u feel and u want him to care about u more (that is wut i did and it works good but talking skill is very important in this one)

if already he doesn't like u anymore then i guess there shouldn't be much for me to tell u ba....

any way add oil la this is just my few little advice but does it helps u i don't know just take it as suggestion lo.....^^

Ah...
so sad now
summer is coming ar...
noone go with me ...
><
i am so sad ...
i want him or someone else ar...
><lll

[Cola]

最初由 IS Girl 發表
yeah...everyone who replied cuz they wanted to help u out...but u r the one that can do the action!!


Communication is very important...(i learned this from my bf)...it is always best to tell each other wat u feel...it is very hard for them to just "know" how u feel...~~~ just work it out slowly...everything has a way out...u just need to discover it!!


CHEER UP GIRL!!!!:)
GOOD LUCK too...~~don't worry too muc about things...

thank you
but i do not think that the communication i should keep on ...
he should keep the communication i should not i think because that he is a boy and i am not i just a girl , and that i know that i should be more lady ...
and i should not always call a boy...
whatever the communication is important or not...
i just think that he should keep it ....
not my turn ....
if he love me ....
><lll
i do not know how can i explain ar...

[XtraOrdinary]

Ho...... this girl is stuck ne.......... hmmm have you thought that maybe he may be waiting for your call to see what you feel ma???? If you always think guy is the one that should take the action, that may not work all the time.... and you know him, is he the kind of person who understand that you maybe waiting for him???

Some guys may not understand that ne?

[RSX]

最初由 XtraOrdinary 發表



Dont think the silence can solve everything..... work up the courage to break his heart ba!

yup... if it doesn't go anything...
i'd rather my girl tells me right away...

[XtraOrdinary]

最初由 RSX 發表


yup... if it doesn't go anything...
i'd rather my girl tells me right away...

Yeah.... 我們都是過來人

haha~~~

[IS Girl]

最初由 Cola 發表

i just think that he should keep it ....
not my turn ....
if he love me ....
><lll
i do not know how can i explain ar...

i know wat u mean...cuz i used to think that way too...
if u say that way...do u love him? if u do...then it CAN be your turn to call too...


communication can't occur w/ just one person ar...sometimes u can't just sit there and think everything will come to u...u must give out in order to receive...
just try ur best to let things flow naturally...
RELAX urself...

[阿苦]

最初由 Cola 發表

just i do not like ar
no more comment..

ic... :)
well it's everyone's choice I guess...
it's just another option you can take you know?
and yeah relationships are all about 互相...
if you always wait for him to contact you first
he may feel that you don't care about him enough
he may get tired of always being the one who calls first
things like that...