我忘不了她!?!? - 第3頁

阿苦 · 05-05-2003

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最初由 RSX 發表

hmmm...... i think now i don't really have pains like this....

i had been used to it all the time....

don't kick my ass.... but i do recover really fast after a relationship....

well... just not worth it so then i choose to move on and get myself another better one....

way to go.... let's forget the past and get new boy/girl.... YAH~~~~~~

yeah.. actually I recover pretty soon too..
ppl always ask me how I can do that..
well I don't know.. @@
I just do...
can't say that I didn't love..
because I did...
but who knows..
maybe I haven't loved someone hard enough
because I don't know how other ppl love..

RSX · 05-05-2003

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最初由阿苦發表

yeah.. actually I recover pretty soon too..
ppl always ask me how I can do that..
well I don't know.. @@
I just do...
can't say that I didn't love..
because I did...
but who knows..
maybe I haven't loved someone hard enough
because I don't know how other ppl love..

don't worry... u are doing fine...

it's never ur fault if u recover fast enough...

same here... a lot of ppl doubt me whether i loved my ex much or not...

well... some of them never know how hard it was when we realized the relationship just went dead and never came back again...

abcdefghijk · 05-05-2003

Thanks for the cheering guys.

But do you ever thought... maybe, just maybe "you" can do better next time w/ the same girl/guy? And kept on thinking about getting back together?

Smellyt0fu · 05-05-2003

Anything is possible... I went back with my first love.. it's more stronger than ever...

abcdefghijk · 05-05-2003

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最初由 Smellyt0fu 發表
Anything is possible... I went back with my first love.. it's more stronger than ever...

Would you mind if she ever had other boyfriend/girlfriend since you two break up? Would you not care about what they DID? or how many bf/gf were there between the time you guys break up and the time you got back together?
If there were... how did you handle it?

Smellyt0fu · 05-05-2003

I did have a fair few gf between her and now... she understands my situation and knows that whatever happened back then should be kept in the past. I personally sorta hated leaving her in the first place but being 21-22 back then, we didn't know much. However, during that time and now, I've learnt a lot about myself which has made my decision to go back even easier.

She didn't have any other bf since me... but anything that had happened, she and I are willing to forgive and forget them and look forward to our future.

How did I handle breakups? well, just talk to your friends, net friends, here on 604, and do something that you enjoy.. sports, driving, fishing, party, camping, play music, listen to music.. whatever... do everything to make yourself happy. Just remember whatever happened, happened for a reason. Keep your head high, and look forward to the next challenge that comes your way coz who knows what tomorrow may bring.

Stay positive!!

XtraOrdinary · 05-05-2003

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最初由 abcdefghijk 發表

Would you mind if she ever had other boyfriend/girlfriend since you two break up? Would you not care about what they DID? or how many bf/gf were there between the time you guys break up and the time you got back together?
If there were... how did you handle it?

Hey honestly, if I really loved her, I'd mind a bit. I mean, it would still be on the back of my mind. But I think the main thing is now, and whether I love her now, and whether she loves me now. I honesely havent been through so I wouldn't know how to handle it. But I still think that if love is there, other things are not as important... no?

JKL · 05-05-2003

人生最難的功課之一就是學會放手.....不放手有者會有明天呢....
有甜蜜的回憶,美好的人生那才是最重要的啦......:)

透明水藍° · 05-05-2003

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最初由 abcdefghijk 發表
分手快一年了﹐還是不能完全忘記她。誰可以告訴我怎樣才能忘記一個人呢﹖
其實我也知道是因為我們曾經愛過﹐而她也曾經在我的心裡站了一個很重要的部位。但我就是忘不了。
最近我try過回去重新認識她﹐但覺得我們不會很合。原因其實是她的態度忽冷忽熱。為了她﹐我問遍了人才找到倆張我沒興趣看的 Canuks tickets... 但有了以後她居然說她不去了。
那時除了心痛﹐我只是感到她變的很自傲。
我討厭這種人﹐於是認定倆個人個性不合。

Tell me, 你們分手後還會想著他嗎﹖ 會的話﹐你會交新的男女朋友嗎﹖ 會跟他說你心裡還有另一個人嗎﹖

我的傷算愈合了嗎﹖
我很久沒哭了﹐ 也沒有太過 emotional. 只是有時會想起她。

p.s. 我認為作為一個男人的我實在很失敗。為了一個毫無相關的人沮喪~

既然忘不掉
就不要忘啊
干嘛強迫自己忘記一個自己的故事
未來的某天
感覺淡了
你回首想起
會慶幸自己沒有遺忘
因為
到時候
那會變成一個很美的回憶

你知道
你越努力去淡忘一個人
一件事
一個回憶
或是一種感覺
越是無法忘記.
因為真正的忘記是不需要努力的.
其實愛情裡的坎坷
都是我們成長過程中的一個跳板
我們都以為好像愛得很深很深
可是時間會讓你知道
它不過很淺很淺
閉上眼睛
鼓起勇氣
跳過去
你會發現
其實並沒有你想象的那麼難
而且你也會發覺
你在成長 ^^

你自己也說
你們曾經相愛過
她和你在一起時認真過
你們彼此都對得起彼此的感覺
那就夠了
不是嗎?
如今你們不在一起了
還可以當朋友
也是一件好事
不是嗎?
珍惜你所有的
該忘記的時候
你自然就會忘記了.... :)

Cheer up lo~ ^^

XtraOrdinary · 05-06-2003

Maybe sometimes we don't want to forget... because it was so beautiful... that I just hope I can relive every moment, even just in my memory... that I was in love, and was loved in return... Not very productive... dwelling in the past... but still beautiful