i dun think there is no particular time frame to start a new relationship after breakin up. And even if u end up wif a guy pretty fast, u dun need to bird wut other people think ba.. afterall, its ur life.
HOW LONG DO YOU THINK IT'S THE APPRORIATE AMOUNT OF TIME AFTER ENDING OF A RELATIONSHIP TO SEEK FOR THE NEXT? i dont really care...i mean u cant just ignore ur feelings cuz it's "wrong" (if that is even the rite word) to be in a relationship..some ppl break up becuz they found out that there was someone else that was better suited for them...
and natually after break up they would pursue a relationship with that someone...
but of course this kinda third person love thing does get critizised a lot..
but of course..i am after all human...
if my friend got a new gf/bf after like 1 week of break up..
yeah of course i will feel that he/she is kinda 花...
but different ppl deal with pain/loss in different ways..
some ppl ignore all the pain they are going through and find another..
some ppl take in all that crap and cram it inside of themselves till it magically disapear...
i use to be the kinda of ppl in the 1st group...but then i learned..
a relationship without love is not a relationship..
u not only hurt others..but in the prossce u also hurt urself...
for myself...i dont wait for a period of time and then seek for another relationship..
i tend not to get over someone until i start to like someone...
so really i never get over my ex..until the start of a relationship, for it be one sided(me liking da guy) or both sided..
i dont have a time limit that i set for myself..
my time ranges a lot..
the first time was 4 yrs..the second time was 1 month..
third time was a week..@_@
and then fourth time was 6 months..
so..:shurg: i cant give a specific number...
but i think...when ever u are ready u'll know..
and there's not way u can set a time limit..
and say like..o after 3 months i am ganna be over him and i'll get myself a bf..
u know? love is something that comes and goes as it pleases...
no way of control...though i really wish we do have control over it..
Hmmm doesn't get over someone untill you fall in love with someone else... thats an interesting perspective... I guess in that case the time frame can be quite uncontrolable.... like you said, love comes and goes without control.... how unfortunate for a fool like me!
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