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阿苦 · 05-13-2003

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最初由 XtraOrdinary 發表

Hmmmm I agree.... but making out is also a form of love ba, a demonstration of love??? Every couple is different.... whos to say that couples that are more physical are less loving of each other on an emotional and/or spiritual level ne????

yeah I guess guys and girls are just different...
like for me..
I may only want the spiritual level kinda love
but I don't think guys would agree with me...
they still need the physical level...
to feel the closeness and proof of love..
but I think to most girls...
feelings are everything~

XtraOrdinary · 05-13-2003

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最初由阿苦發表

yeah I guess guys and girls are just different...
like for me..
I may only want the spiritual level kinda love
but I don't think guys would agree with me...
they still need the physical level...
to feel the closeness and proof of love..
but I think to most girls...
feelings are everything~

Hey don't get me wrong... I am a guy, and I do think that spritual love is absolutely essential in love, while physical may not be. And I don't think we need physical love as proof.... more like.... because we love, so we physical.... you know?

And for guys, we have feelings too!!! We don't just want to be treated like some physical toy......(although we may fantasize about it......hahaha~~~)

And I think its fair to say that if a guy loves someone, feelings would be a major part too......

CLK · 05-13-2003

找你ㄉ另一辦談談囉!!這ㄍ是滿重要ㄉ!溝通!!

milk_6029 · 05-13-2003

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最初由 XtraOrdinary 發表

Hmmmm I agree.... but making out is also a form of love ba, a demonstration of love??? Every couple is different.... whos to say that couples that are more physical are less loving of each other on an emotional and/or spiritual level ne????

u got a point, but the thing is, i don't think making out 24/7 with no talking or wutsoever can reli create love, that sounds too physical to me
btw...how did those couples in ancient times survive, u no in dat time the girls had to be virgin until they were married

XtraOrdinary · 05-13-2003

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最初由 milk_6029 發表

u got a point, but the thing is, i don't think making out 24/7 with no talking or wutsoever can reli create love, that sounds too physical to me
btw...how did those couples in ancient times survive, u no in dat time the girls had to be virgin until they were married

Hmmm realistically, no one can make out 24/7. There must be sometime where they couple relate to each other in some emotional and spiritual level.

And do you doubt that girls can survive without physical love ma??? Hahahaha even guys can survive without it oh!!!!! (just may be a little grumpy thats all...... grump grump....)

eventide · 05-13-2003

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最初由 CLK 發表
找你ㄉ另一辦談談囉!!這ㄍ是滿重要ㄉ!溝通!!

haha that's wut i did...

i think you should talk to ur bf about it ..
let him know u want to have a relationship..where u guys actually have stuff to talk about ..enjoy spending time together..enjoy doing stuff.. not just..making out when u guys see each others and nothing else..

like me and my bf..
we actually talk..we have stuff to talk about :biglaugh:

XtraOrdinary · 05-14-2003

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最初由 eventide 發表

haha that's wut i did...

i think you should talk to ur bf about it ..
let him know u want to have a relationship..where u guys actually have stuff to talk about ..enjoy spending time together..enjoy doing stuff.. not just..making out when u guys see each others and nothing else..

like me and my bf..
we actually talk..we have stuff to talk about :biglaugh:

Hmmm just a quick question... does making out, and talking afterwards about making out, considered "having stuff to talk about" ????????

(don't mind me... i like to bust the show)