[DoggyDogg]

最初由 water 發表


i know..all i can say is human nature..sigh..
have u read the story of the rock?
a guy was allowed to walk on this path full of rocks..
and he's only allowed to pick out one...
and have three chances..
first he saw this bright one..so he picked it up..
but later he saw another one that was very very pretty..
so he threw away the bright one and picked the pretty one...
but the pretty one was very very cold to the point where he can no longer hold it..
so he threw it away...
and as he walked down the path towards the end..
there were no more bright or pretty rocks..
so he picked a plain old rock...
it's just very sad..that ppl cant see wut they already have...

i know that coz i have expericened that....I did throw away a very very very very very pretty rock 1.5 year ago, when i realized that I was wrong, someone already picked up that rock..

[阿苦]

最初由 mini_apple 發表
well...
我有點花吧

我可以很快愛上一個人...
然後分手不久
愛另一個

這叫花嗎? @@
花應該是一次很多個吧..
如果一次都一個就還好...
分手不久就可以愛另一個應該算是痊癒的快

[阿苦]

我是覺得我不花心
可是我可能給別人我很花心的感覺吧...
usually I say oh I like that guy or 耍花痴 in front of friends
but I usually was just joking...
反正就是耍白痴就對了
為大家的生活增添一點話題 + 樂趣
因為有人很喜歡ㄉ一ㄤ人
我怕他不ㄉ一ㄤ生活就沒樂趣了~
所以我都把我自己說得很花痴
一下子喜歡這個一下子喜歡那個
不過說真的... 我有男朋友的時候
我不會因為覺得哪個誰誰誰比較好所以分手
usually I feel pretty satisfied with my current bf...
但是... 如果我有一天覺得他不夠愛我
或是他對我不夠好的時候...
然後我的感覺也會慢慢淡去...
也許我比較自私吧
我需要安全感.. I need him to love me a lot
and then I'll be able to love him a lot too~
if something really happens that makes me 想要分手的念頭
我就會想到其實他是對我多麼好多麼愛我
我就會退一步了..
but sometimes too much pressure will cause me wanna break up too @@

[bigbigpooh]

最初由 Smellyt0fu 發表
How do you stop urself from being 花心? How do stop thinking that someone else is better? How do you stop yourself from wishing there was something better that you could change on your bf/gf? (e.g. slimmer, prettier... basically physical feature).....

i will try to look into what he has...instead of what he doesnt have....
i will always ask myself that if i lose this guy...will i be able to find another one that could be better than him and can replace him, or with those characters which i like about him? if not, then i will know that i cannot AFFORD to lose this guy....

[mini_apple]

最初由 阿苦 發表

這叫花嗎? @@
花應該是一次很多個吧..
如果一次都一個就還好...
分手不久就可以愛另一個應該算是痊癒的快

但我都被罵花...

[XtraOrdinary]

最初由 Smellyt0fu 發表



That's just saying I'm happy with a Hyundai but don't want to know if there is a Ferrari out there...


But when do you stop?... that's probably more my question to everyone...

Yes, I believe that is the REAL question.... When do you stop... when do you stop thinking that there might be someone better... or like the story, you might be throwing away the best that is out there, just to never get it back again.


I think one answer to that is, if I lose this relationship, and never to get it back, and never to find anything better, can I live with that......... If I can, than its not time to stop looking... But if I can't, than I'd stop right there...


Does that make sense to everyone?

[XtraOrdinary]

最初由 阿苦 發表
我是覺得我不花心
可是我可能給別人我很花心的感覺吧...
usually I say oh I like that guy or 耍花痴 in front of friends
but I usually was just joking...
反正就是耍白痴就對了
為大家的生活增添一點話題 + 樂趣
因為有人很喜歡ㄉ一ㄤ人
我怕他不ㄉ一ㄤ生活就沒樂趣了~
所以我都把我自己說得很花痴
一下子喜歡這個一下子喜歡那個
不過說真的... 我有男朋友的時候
我不會因為覺得哪個誰誰誰比較好所以分手
usually I feel pretty satisfied with my current bf...
但是... 如果我有一天覺得他不夠愛我
或是他對我不夠好的時候...
然後我的感覺也會慢慢淡去...
也許我比較自私吧
我需要安全感.. I need him to love me a lot
and then I'll be able to love him a lot too~
if something really happens that makes me 想要分手的念頭
我就會想到其實他是對我多麼好多麼愛我
我就會退一步了..
but sometimes too much pressure will cause me wanna break up too @@

Ho.... How come so difficult........ too little is not enough, too much would just make one run away.....


Can someone tell me xactly where 'just right' is??? (rhetorical question......)

[CLK]

最初由 KCL 發表
人永遠不會滿足的 ~ :shurg:

花心跟滿足不滿足是不能畫上等號ㄉ!!

[kobe]

最初由 阿苦 發表
我是覺得我不花心
可是我可能給別人我很花心的感覺吧...
usually I say oh I like that guy or 耍花痴 in front of friends
but I usually was just joking...
反正就是耍白痴就對了
為大家的生活增添一點話題 + 樂趣
因為有人很喜歡ㄉ一ㄤ人
我怕他不ㄉ一ㄤ生活就沒樂趣了~
所以我都把我自己說得很花痴
一下子喜歡這個一下子喜歡那個
不過說真的... 我有男朋友的時候
我不會因為覺得哪個誰誰誰比較好所以分手
usually I feel pretty satisfied with my current bf...
但是... 如果我有一天覺得他不夠愛我
或是他對我不夠好的時候...
然後我的感覺也會慢慢淡去...
也許我比較自私吧
我需要安全感.. I need him to love me a lot
and then I'll be able to love him a lot too~
if something really happens that makes me 想要分手的念頭
我就會想到其實他是對我多麼好多麼愛我
我就會退一步了..
but sometimes too much pressure will cause me wanna break up too @@

... a-ku...

[kobe]

最初由 mini_apple 發表


但我都被罵花...

:biglaugh: