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im still so deep in love with my ex...
but recently i met a guy on..
wanna make frds with him...
my ex knew abt it..
he's not happi..
sounded.. jealous...

man~ wut should i do to make him trust me?
wut can i do to get our relatioship bak again?
i never know love someone is that hard..
and with pain....
now.. im saving $$ up... and loookin 4 a job now..
caz of him.. i wanna go see him..
he's not in Van anymore...
aHhHhH...


wut would u guys call me? stupid? 癡情?

[Smellyt0fu]

Don't make any move till you are sure you want to go back.. it's a dangerous road to go back if he's not going to commit to it. Forget what your ex says/thinks.. he's "nobody" to you now... so keep that in mind.


On the other hand, this new gentleman would be just a friend. I guess that would be the most logical way to deal with it. Just don't go into it to be "lovers" or whatever.


But do what you want to do.. do something that will benefit No. 1 (i.e. yourself). So if it's work or something you are trying to save up $$ for, then put that as a priority.

[XtraOrdinary]

I agree with tofu.... long distance relationship is xtremely difficult. One that is broken up and want to get back together is even harder!!! I would know, cause I am in almost same situation as you are...



*sigh* I have no real advice for you, because I know what it is like to love ex... the only thing i would say is take sometime, focus on other things... time will tell how the two of you may or may not work out... I think....

[Smellyt0fu]

Well, I am an example of going back to my ex... but we broke up originally because I said so.. but I'm more committed than ever to make it work out... my gf wants to get married now as well... but to be honest, I'm just not there to commit that much coz of financial reasons. So going back is not all that bad. It's just what level of commitment you both have to each other.


And I've been thru long dist relationships (AU and SG)... very hard!

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thx guys...
well.. i dunno wut to say

[XtraOrdinary]

最初由 Smellyt0fu 發表
Well, I am an example of going back to my ex... but we broke up originally because I said so.. but I'm more committed than ever to make it work out... my gf wants to get married now as well... but to be honest, I'm just not there to commit that much coz of financial reasons. So going back is not all that bad. It's just what level of commitment you both have to each other.


And I've been thru long dist relationships (AU and SG)... very hard!

Sounds like a great story.... maybe I'll get to hear it one day... in the mean time, I wish for a happy wonderful ending ! Live happily ever after :)