[134679]

what do you do is your mom/dad and gf (very serous one) they dont like each other???

[benyaoguai]

那就要看你父母不喜歡他的理由了 :shurg:

[134679]

yup, u are right...
just because she think my mom/dad they dont support since I moved out....thats why...

[JKL]

其實阿~~gf 會討厭bf的父母常常是因為bf一直跟她說他的父母對他不好...而照成gf才會討厭男方父母的說...........

[朱頭民民]

well.....first of all....by support....u mean parents support everything??
of course that's not gonna happened...u moved out.....that's one step into independent life....they are not gonna cook you food and gives you ALOT of $$ to spend.....parents usually think that once you moved out...they gonna give you a fixed amount of $$ every month UNLESS you ask them for more.....


personally, i live alone....and i just broke up with my gf...so, i cna't really tell u anything
but for my experience b4....your parents ONLY want to support you, not her....cuz...u guys are not even married yet......or are you?
well~anyways.....if your gf wants the support from your parents, it's almost impossible to get it. The best solution is to work for $$...that's what i'm doing right now, work my ass off to pay for everything

[透明水藍°]

我當時選擇分手
因為父母強烈反對


well
我覺得父母是一輩子的
不想為了小時候的情竇初開
而破壞了原本很好的家庭關係


而且父母有父母的理由
理解他們是為了我好

所以
雖然捨不得
卻還是分手了


父母反對的戀情
談起來很累

[benyaoguai]

所有事情都一定有因有果...

所以~~

搞清楚為什麼你女朋友不喜歡你父母
也搞清楚你父母為什麼不喜歡你女朋友..
要是中間只是一些誤解的話那就是你必須要解開的..


要是不是誤會的話..
那你就有必要要想清楚雙方的理由是否合理
不合理的話你當然沒有理由有理
但是合理的話你或著需要幫忙緩衝
反正就是要是是合理的要求的話我覺得... 就能改就改吧~

[water]

i wouldnt know..dont have that kinda problem..@_@
my parents are very open minded ppl..
and i get along with everyone..including my bf's mom..
my mom and dad support me in everything..and everyway possible..
wutever i want to do..my mom and dad just say "go for it!"
so when i got a bf..my mom just told me not to "do it"..
and she told me..no matter wut my dad says..
if u like him..just stick with him..dont worry abt ur dad..
but my dad didnt say anything..:)



anywho...yeah i agree with guai..
u should understand why ur parents dont like ur gf..or vise versa..
which ever situation u are in..
and then go from there..
if ur gf's reasons are reasonable..then u should consider talking to ur parents abt it..
if ur parents' reasons are reasonable..then u should consider talking to ur gf abt it..or consider break up if it's to serious..

[134679]

thank you all for the suggestions....

so in the worse case, no matter how much i love my gf or my gf loves me, we have to break up because this...???

[JKL]

well...........有那個必要嗎....??
be positive la....加油加油啦........^^