[katocn5001]

前幾天去連誼.認識了自己心儀的女孩.今天送了朵金莎花給她.她欣然接受了.
當天晚上跟她在線上聊天剛開始還很熱絡.但後來卻漸漸冷下來.女生不想聊了.
想請問是不是不會說風趣而幽默的話會比較吃虧阿.....
但自己卻覺得風趣而幽默好抽象喔....不知道怎樣才算ㄟ....

[blueice]

前幾天去連誼.認識了自己心儀的女孩.今天送了朵金莎花給她.她欣然接受了.
當天晚上跟她在線上聊天剛開始還很熱絡.但後來卻漸漸冷下來.女生不想聊了.
想請問是不是不會說風趣而幽默的話會比較吃虧阿.....
但自己卻覺得風趣而幽默好抽象喔....不知道怎樣才算ㄟ....

連誼??!!


我ㄉ天ㄚ, 這種在日劇上才看到ㄉ東西竟然真ㄉ有人在這裡辦哦???!!! 對象是什ㄇ? 空姐ㄇ?? 你們該不會男ㄉ坐一排, 女ㄉ坐一排, 互相自我介紹, 然後玩起車站接龍 (or sky train station 接龍)ㄉ遊戲ㄅ???!!!


風趣幽默可以讓你比較快和人成為朋友, 但不一定能成為情侶. 女生不想聊ㄌ, 就表示你該直接約人出門囉~ :laugh:

[藍色的麵包]

ask her out, take her to the beach

[mycwu]

time to ask her out eh... hahaha good suggestiong hahahah

[Leona]

hmm......get to know her more lor~~
:shrug:

[Happy]

前幾天去連誼.認識了自己心儀的女孩.

她是什麼類型的女生?

[藍色的麵包]

beach or movie, don't have to talk too much in these two places, just let the feeling 醞釀 itself :spin:

[CK]

perhaps too much humour may make her think that u r fake?

i'm just guessing, but it's possible. nobody likes a fake person.

[Crowcell]

in short, be yourself, if she likes it, she'll stay

*assuming u r trying to get a serious relationship, that is

it's a whole other game if u just wanna get laid :spin:

[pkobe8]

Well, I'm not too good with the whole mind games that girls like to play. But I think if the girl is interested she should stay and chat with you, however, I personally find it annoying to chat online or on the phone. If I already know the girl for while then I would just set a day to chill with her. Besides you always want to leave some things to say when you guys hangout, no point telling your life story online and have nothing to say in person. Also, 風趣而幽默 doesn't have to be 抽象, unless you try to force yourself to be funny when you're not. A person is just naturally humorous. I mean you don't have to be a stand up comedian 24/7, humour is just another spice of life. And "yes" being funny at the right time does give a guy an advantage when it comes to girls. Girls are just like regular people who enjoying laughing and having a good time, who doesn't? I mean I don't want to hangout with any person who is as interesting as watching paint dry, no matter how hot she is. Wait, I take that back, if she's really hot and I think I have a chance to get laid I might at least act like I'm interested. HAHAHA!