認識個朋友三天不到就開始追我了說~ 剛開始對他沒啥意思~~後來就喜歡上他了. 不過到現在都快三個多月摟~他都還沒要告白的意思.
後來我朋友有跟他聊過說他心裡還是有他ex~ 說不希望把我當代替品~ 所以想說就做朋友好了~ 不過還是對我比normal friends還好~ 害我到現在都不知道他到底是不是認真的說~ 因為我是認為~既然要追的話就該有要表白的準備啊~ 哪有光追不表白的啊~= ="
不知道有沒有人有過跟我類似的situtation說~ 有的話發表一下吧^^"

[water]

yes..
some guy i knew from summer school started chasing me..
and then once i started to like him, and took the position of the active instead of the passive, and told him that i liked him..
he was like woooo, i dont want a serious relationship..and then he stopped calling me, talking to me..blah blah blah
which is stupid..cuz i only said i liked him, didnt even say i wanted a serious relationship let along a relationship..=..="
so yeah..those ppl are gay asses..
hahaha..:laugh:

[Nina]

The thing is that, I didn't told the white to him though~ just being a bit more nicer to him that all. And aside from that~ he's still being extra nice to me~ so I'm still confused~XD

[yuan]

The thing is that, I didn't told the white to him though~ just being a bit more nicer to him that all. And aside from that~ he's still being extra nice to me~ so I'm still confused~XD

maybe hes not ready yet. give him time

[water]

The thing is that, I didn't told the white to him though~ just being a bit more nicer to him that all. And aside from that~ he's still being extra nice to me~ so I'm still confused~XD

well yeah..i know wut u mean..
it's very fustrating..
maybe just give him some time ba..
i dont know abt ur situation..
i am not a very pacient person..that's why i just told him..
but i guess he didnt really like girls taking the active role..
i dont know abt ur "friend" though..
so i guess it's ur call..
either tell him up front, or wait some more~

[benyaoguai]

i support you 100% to be just 曖昧

all the other kids are doing it


i dunno~ there really isn't much you can do i guess


sorry i ain't really helpful

[cafeboy]

認識個朋友三天不到就開始追我了說~ 剛開始對他沒啥意思~~後來就喜歡上他了. 不過到現在都快三個多月摟~他都還沒要告白的意思.
後來我朋友有跟他聊過說他心裡還是有他ex~ 說不希望把我當代替品~ 所以想說就做朋友好了~ 不過還是對我比normal friends還好~ 害我到現在都不知道他到底是不是認真的說~ 因為我是認為~既然要追的話就該有要表白的準備啊~ 哪有光追不表白的啊~= ="
不知道有沒有人有過跟我類似的situtation說~ 有的話發表一下吧^^"

呵~我想~有滴人~如果在沒有十足的把握下~是不會開口滴吧~
或許怕一但被拒絕會變得有點尷尬 @@"" 與其如此~
不如維持現況~讓彼此都有時間去了解~
如果妳對他也有好感滴話~不如試著給他些暗示跟回應吧@@"

[pc42884]

well, like the old Chinese cliches say(man, those damn cliches are so right sometimes)

when a guy chases a girl, there's a mountain in between
when a girl chases a guy, there's a slice of silk in between

you know what I mean??

that's all I got to say about your/your fd's situation

hit me back w/ your take on my opinion

[pc42884]

yes..
some guy i knew from summer school started chasing me..
and then once i started to like him, and took the position of the active instead of the passive, and told him that i liked him..
he was like woooo, i dont want a serious relationship..and then he stopped calling me, talking to me..blah blah blah
which is stupid..cuz i only said i liked him, didnt even say i wanted a serious relationship let along a relationship..=..="
so yeah..those ppl are gay asses..
hahaha..:laugh:

haha, you probably scared the hell out of that guy
he didn't even think in his dream that you would go straight on him gua:spin:

[pc42884]

認識個朋友三天不到就開始追我了說~ 剛開始對他沒啥意思~~後來就喜歡上他了. 不過到現在都快三個多月摟~他都還沒要告白的意思.
後來我朋友有跟他聊過說他心裡還是有他ex~ 說不希望把我當代替品~ 所以想說就做朋友好了~ 不過還是對我比normal friends還好~ 害我到現在都不知道他到底是不是認真的說~ 因為我是認為~既然要追的話就該有要表白的準備啊~ 哪有光追不表白的啊~= ="
不知道有沒有人有過跟我類似的situtation說~ 有的話發表一下吧^^"

about that ex part...I am just guessing he's either just undecided
or he wants to 'one foot stepping two boats"

I mean if he really can't forget about his ex, then he shouldn't be chasing another girl