[jobroto]

I dun think girls and guys can be purely friends. If a girl and a guy consider themselves as best friends, it's like going out with each other but not have any sexual activities invovlve. Plus, since both of them are comfortable with each other, it would lead to more than friendship. Like some ppl say, their wives or husbands are like their best friends.

[water]

I dun think girls and guys can be purely friends. If a girl and a guy consider themselves as best friends, it's like going out with each other but not have any sexual activities invovlve. Plus, since both of them are comfortable with each other, it would lead to more than friendship. Like some ppl say, their wives or husbands are like their best friends.

umm..i beg to differ..i have tons of good friends that are guys..
and we are purely friends..some have been for over 10 yrs..
if any thing were to happen it would have happen a long time ago..
few of my best friends are guys also..and they all have their gf..
none of them are attracted to me..:shrug:
i am comfortable around most guys..
it's the girls that make me uncomfortable..we have no similar intrests and we dont really know wut to talk abt..so there's usually an ackward silence between me and most girls~

so according to ur point..i am a slut?

[阿苦]

umm..i beg to differ..i have tons of good friends that are guys..
and we are purely friends..some have been for over 10 yrs..
if any thing were to happen it would have happen a long time ago..
few of my best friends are guys also..and they all have their gf..
none of them are attracted to me..:shrug:
i am comfortable around most guys..
it's the girls that make me uncomfortable..we have no similar intrests and we dont really know wut to talk abt..so there's usually an ackward silence between me and most girls~

so according to ur point..i am a slut?

:laugh: same here..
most of my friends are guys..
for some reason I don't know how to talk to most girls @@"
altho my best friend is still a girl

[小豬~小小豬]

在這個問題上想聽聽大家的看法..

個人對這點以前曾經是堅信不移的..
但是後來經歷多了以後漸漸的動搖了..
所以想聽聽看大家的想法..

這個是見仁見智...因為~~有些人是你一被子就只有友誼關西~!!
雖然你跟他熟到不行= =但是你不會去喜歡他~!!但也並不代表他不會喜歡你喔~!!

[christyrisu]

I dun think girls and guys can be purely friends. If a girl and a guy consider themselves as best friends, it's like going out with each other but not have any sexual activities invovlve. Plus, since both of them are comfortable with each other, it would lead to more than friendship. Like some ppl say, their wives or husbands are like their best friends.

女生跟女生之間也不一定只有純友誼啊~哈哈哈~
One of my best friend is a guy...
同樣的我也有女性的好朋友裡面是同性戀...
照你那麼說我兩方都要注意不能產生感情啊...= ="??

I don't disagree that sometimes love can derive from friendship, but i'm sure there are just pure friendships, on both sides!

[blueice]

but husband and wife wouldn't allow the other to have an affair ba?

yet pure friend will. They would even introduce you to some other ppl, tryin' to create opportunities for you.

there IS a difference.

[vvn1217]

depends on how deep the friendship is
if the 2 are really close. i dun think it's possible to have a pure friendship
it's either he'll like me.. or i'll like him

[Shattered Wind]

我只是想知道什麼叫所謂的純友誼??

說難聽一點
有時候.. 朋友只是一種互相利用的關係....
不管是實質上的幫助.. 還是心靈上的...

那說好聽一點
就是朋友有時候會互補長短
之類之類的..

說得好！
不過有什麼東西不是互相利用？吃飯也好，呼吸也好，沒有一件事情不是互動的。

能做到等價交易已經不錯了。付出了只得到痛苦的情況滿街都是。

[pkphilip]

I don't believe there are real friendship at the beginning. Guys, will you bravely go out and introduce yourself to girls who are not attracted you?

I think in the beginning, where you first met. One will like the other person more.. if they feel that it cannot be worked out, then you will be friends.

Philip

[water]

I don't believe there are real friendship at the beginning. Guys, will you bravely go out and introduce yourself to girls who are not attracted you?

I think in the beginning, where you first met. One will like the other person more.. if they feel that it cannot be worked out, then you will be friends.

Philip

well..introducing urself to the other person isnt the only way to make friends..
u can have intro by friend..
or family members (sister or brother) or maybe parent's friend's sons/daughters..
there are alot of ways to meet friends.. :shrug: