[bobobo]

i have a gf, she is younger than me by 2 years
she has 2 best friends, one guy, one girl
they both hates me.
i've made my way through and made up with the girl.
but the guy is such a pathetic kid
he is unreasonable
he acts all gay and shit in front of his friends.
whenever i tries to talk to him, he just swiftly walk away or talk to someone he knows.
i've even gave his stuff n some food before.
but his attitude never changed
he usually makes my gf sad n mad and sometimes in tears by very negative comments. once, they had a party, i was sending my gf to one of her friend's house, and she phoned her " best guy friend " for the address.
and she asks " are you there ? " he says yea
" can u giveme the address ? " then he says no. and hangs up.
shits like this happends alot, and that day, my gf entered the party in tears. b/c she had to deal with that guy's attitude for the whole day.
it really really annoys n bothers me.
however, im not supose to kick his ass, b/c he is one of her " best friends" since young. so if i do kick his ass, i'll go back to the " jackass" which i was @ the starting of my relationship.

therefore, i need some opinions/advices
what should a normal guy like me to reason with an unreasonable childish boy useing no violence n common sense ?
i only want the guy to bother my gf no more.
thx

[aezs]

i'd say, just kick his ass.

[無花果]

i dunno wut to say...:shakehead

that kinda guy doesn't treat ur gf as a "friend", so tell ur gf not to treat him as a "friend"...

[water]

first of all..is ur gf sure that's how a "best friend" acts?
cuz i never have best friends let along friends like that..
maybe ur gf needs to be more rational abt what actually is a "friend"?

2ndly wut u should do is just ignore him like he ignores u
u are dating his friend not him..so wut if he's her best friend :shrug:
he doesnt like u, but that hasnt stopper her (ur gf) from dating u..
screw that guy, who cares wut he thinks~

[阿苦]

I think you should talk to your gf about her "best friend"
he's just too childish..
and that's not what a real "best friend" would do
maybe you can have your gf to talk to that guy about how she feels etc
if he still doesn't understand and doesn't care, he is not a true friend
OR.. there's something your gf didn't tell you..