[water]

that's what i'm trying to get at lol..

but i dun think he can do it.. since he obviously still have strong feelings for her..

but yeah.. come out and say it.. that's the best way to do it :)

yeah..i think the best way for u to be 安心 is for u to ask her directly...
u tell her how u feel abt her..u may loose her as a friend, u may not (depend on how she feels really)
u tell her about how u feel abt her having a bf but still so close with u..u'd either break her and her bf up, or loose her as a friend
if u just stay quite and not talk, ur friendship would be some wut save..ur feelings go un-noticed (and take it from me, it isnt easy seeing the person u like with another person) and u still have this bad feeling inside of u..

so really...it's a damned if u do damned if u dont situation..
i guess u'll just have to pick ur fight and stick to it

:whip: i mean if i had one..

U!u no be one of the friends i dump my bf for! heng!

no..?

woo... oh no... :cry:

FINE BY ME~~ :spin:

okay no flood here :laugh:

[blueice]

第四點是最奇怪的地方...其他的都還可以用她把你當成非常非常好的朋友來解釋...但第四點真的有點怪

建議你可以婉轉地對她說出你的感受, 和她說如果真的只是把你當朋友的話, 請給你一點時間調整自己, 並保證你會回來. 如果她把你當朋友, 會有這份了解和體貼的.

這樣也可以做個了斷, 如果她對你有意思, 也會不得不表露了吧. :)

[tiredman]

Thank you people, all you, Water, Nemo, Harlem, vvn1217, CK, blueice. I will take your guys advice but its not as easy as you guys make it sound. I think you would think the same if you were in my position. I told her once that we shouldn't see each other that much but then she got upset, asking "why?!". Like I said before, she is wired. I have to admit, I'm afraid of what she will say if I told her that I really like her. But it looks like I have too tell her, sometime.

Another thing that makes me mad is that her bf, well, he's 醜惡! (Not to be mean or anything) :cry: I can't believe I've been beaten by a guy like that. 他是好的雖則。

[blueice]

Thank you people, all you, Water, Nemo, Harlem, vvn1217, CK, blueice. I will take your guys advice but its not as easy as you guys make it sound. I think you would think the same if you were in my position. I told her once that we shouldn't see each other that much but then she got upset, asking "why?!". Like I said before, she is wired. I have to admit, I'm afraid of what she will say if I told her that I really like her. But it looks like I have too tell her, sometime.

Another thing that makes me mad is that her bf, well, he's 醜惡! (Not to be mean or anything) :cry: I can't believe I've been beaten by a guy like that. 他是好的雖則。

加油囉, 祝你好運. 如果真的把你當朋友, 還是會一直把你當朋友的, 所以即使讓她知道了也沒關係的. 就怕雙方都搞曖昧, 這樣當戳破時可能就什麼都沒了.

還有, 愛情有時候真的靠緣分, 這和條件無關, 所以不要為無法改變或解釋的事情讓自己苦惱, 會快樂點. :)

[Error604]

do u like her?
if u do, tell her right away

maybe she liked u too but too afraid to tell