[透明水藍°]

Breaking up...
is like getting yourself unhooked from drugs...

:bow:
救命呀 ﹗

Do you guys think that you'll never heal from a breakup until you move on to your next relationship?

Ummm.. most of the time I heal too fast b4 another relationship encounters my life. Im serious abt relationships but also get over them pretty quickily. Don't be upset ~~ Being single is good !!!!!!! Won't you feel a little excitment in your heart when u r back to single again? *nvm ..maybe i hav issues*
But still ! Single is good =DD try to enjoy it !!
I think being in a relationship is sweet. being Single is hyper n happy XD

[blueice]

Ummm.. most of the time I heal too fast b4 another relationship encounters my life. Im serious abt relationships but also get over them pretty quickily. Don't be upset ~~ Being single is good !!!!!!! Won't you feel a little excitment in your heart when u r back to single again? *nvm ..maybe i hav issues*
But still ! Single is good =DD try to enjoy it !!
I think being in a relationship is sweet. being Single is hyper n happy XD

water blue is an optimistic person, and she thinks positively :good:



Now do I sound like writing a reference for you? :laugh:

[Lok Lok 洛洛]

water blue is an optimistic person, and she thinks positively :good:



Now do I sound like writing a reference for you? :laugh:

There are always different point of views... if you look at things differently, you get a different impression.

I wish I could be as optimistic as her... but I'm the very "gray" kinda person... Teach me how to be a happy person! I really really wanna learn!

[blueice]

There are always different point of views... if you look at things differently, you get a different impression.

I wish I could be as optimistic as her... but I'm the very "gray" kinda person... Teach me how to be a happy person! I really really wanna learn!

阿咧...我沒有責怪你的意思在呀...我只是和水藍妹說笑一下而已 ^^"

If you are grey, 那也沒有什麼. 我本身也不是像水藍妹那樣樂觀.

只是...因為有了"大家都只是不相干的靈魂"這種想法, 所以學會和孤單共處? 我想, 靠別人而快樂是很不保險的, 且大家都是平等的靈魂, 所以與其讓別人影響你, 為什麼不把心收回來放在自己身上?

不過, 這種事急不來吧. 分手後恢復快慢, 也是因人而異. 但是不管怎樣, 情傷之後會難過, 需要療傷, 這也是人之常情, 是無可避免的. 想跳出來, 努力跳出來, 但是不用拼命.

除了這段已經失去的感情, 問問自己有沒有其他想要獲重視的東西, 夢, 或目標. 如果能找到, 就不會因為感情而失去快樂的意義. 或者, 只是體認到有這種東西, 即使還沒找到, 你也能因釋然而能重新快樂起來.

之所以不建議談另一段感情來療傷的另一個理由, 就是靠著別人得到力量或走出來, 你永遠還是那麼脆弱, 你的快樂還是只能來自他人, 取決於他人. 哪天那個人決定結束, 又是你受傷吧?



我囉哩八嗦太多了, 停筆.

[透明水藍°]

water blue is an optimistic person, and she thinks positively :good:



Now do I sound like writing a reference for you? :laugh:

Hahahahahha ~~ yea you really do sound like you are writing me a reference. Thank you, I will quote that or even prt screen if I need that reference someday XDXDXD

[透明水藍°]

There are always different point of views... if you look at things differently, you get a different impression.

I wish I could be as optimistic as her... but I'm the very "gray" kinda person... Teach me how to be a happy person! I really really wanna learn!

Well, for me, I truly believe in this quote "Everything Happens For a Reason". Even something bad like a break up has itz reasons to occur and itz God's will to let it happen. Thus, 人生總有一失一得﹐我相信這件傷心事的發生會帶來其他的快樂。所以 我總是把注意力放在去找尋身邊那些其他的幸福 ﹕)

I was sooooo upset when I broke up w/ my ex at first.
(家長反對) But thinking back now, If I don't break up with him, I might not make it to my dream school, I might have problems with my family even till now, and I might not meet my boyfriend now ! So see, I truly loved my ex bf and it was sad to let it end, however now, I gainned a whole lot other things back in return !

妳要認真看待每一段感情沒錯﹐但是不要把它看得比一切都重。
生命中有太多太多的事情比男女間的愛情重要 (我認為啦)。 沉溺于愛情中很幸福沒錯 但愛情並非足使妳快樂的一切。如果一個人離開了﹐就當他作妳生命中其中的一名過客。紅燈亮起﹐兩個人萍水相逢。也許綠燈之後一起走過一段路 但到了下一個十字路口﹐
一個轉左 一個轉右。沒什麼可惜的﹐只要一起分享過一段風景就夠﹕) 下一個路口 還會遇到另一個人 也許會陪妳走到最後 ^^

每一件事情都有它發生的理由 現在難過 只是還沒有找到那個理由罷了 ﹕D 快點開心起來吧 ﹗看看身邊 妳會發現很多幸福 ^^

被藍冰哥哥傳染 ~講那麼多 - -

[blueice]

哼, 什麼嘛.

水藍妹妳自己明明講得一副很起勁的樣子, 講完之後才牽托我...:errr:

[en_saru]

喔喔!! 洛洛比我大倆天:biglaugh:

[透明水藍°]

哼, 什麼嘛.

水藍妹妳自己明明講得一副很起勁的樣子, 講完之後才牽托我...:errr:

噗 就是被你傳染才醬呀 ~~XDXD

[pkphilip]

Hey Lok Lok!! Vancouver is really small and I see you again!!

I broke up for many months now, and I have to say, I kind of enjoy the single feeling. Caz you are not dependent onto anyone now.

I do however feel sour when I see couples holding hands, walking around (especially at work). So.. being in a relationship is cool, but you can definitely survive w/o one. It takes time to adjust.

Wish you luck on finding a better bf... just don't look for one caz you are desperate.

Having known you for X many years. You are not as grey as you think you are. I would say you are a "black humor" kind of person, or I have to say, "you are pretty naughty/evil"!! haha... You just need someone who is bright enough to bring that happniess out.

Philip