[blueice]

噗 就是被你傳染才醬呀 ~~XDXD

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是 是 是...:errr:

[en_saru]

how's bbq at buntzen? :biglaugh:

[Lok Lok 洛洛]

how's bbq at buntzen? :biglaugh:

OH my gosh........... who r u ?????
ur scary.......................

[Lok Lok 洛洛]

Hey Lok Lok!! Vancouver is really small and I see you again!!

I broke up for many months now, and I have to say, I kind of enjoy the single feeling. Caz you are not dependent onto anyone now.

I do however feel sour when I see couples holding hands, walking around (especially at work). So.. being in a relationship is cool, but you can definitely survive w/o one. It takes time to adjust.

Wish you luck on finding a better bf... just don't look for one caz you are desperate.

Having known you for X many years. You are not as grey as you think you are. I would say you are a "black humor" kind of person, or I have to say, "you are pretty naughty/evil"!! haha... You just need someone who is bright enough to bring that happniess out.

Philip

Right....... it takes time to heal. I'm trying to stay patient and wait for the hardest time to pass away.
I just hope I could get addicted to myself ASAP!

I understand the "sour" feeling ur talking about... I was surrounded by 5 pair of couples yesterday. They were totally killing me!

What does "black humor" mean? and when was I ever naughty/evil to u !?! hahahah I was so nice to u all the time.

[Lok Lok 洛洛]

Well, for me, I truly believe in this quote "Everything Happens For a Reason". Even something bad like a break up has itz reasons to occur and itz God's will to let it happen. Thus, 人生總有一失一得﹐我相信這件傷心事的發生會帶來其他的快樂。所以 我總是把注意力放在去找尋身邊那些其他的幸福 ﹕)

I was sooooo upset when I broke up w/ my ex at first.
(家長反對) But thinking back now, If I don't break up with him, I might not make it to my dream school, I might have problems with my family even till now, and I might not meet my boyfriend now ! So see, I truly loved my ex bf and it was sad to let it end, however now, I gainned a whole lot other things back in return !

妳要認真看待每一段感情沒錯﹐但是不要把它看得比一切都重。
生命中有太多太多的事情比男女間的愛情重要 (我認為啦)。 沉溺于愛情中很幸福沒錯 但愛情並非足使妳快樂的一切。如果一個人離開了﹐就當他作妳生命中其中的一名過客。紅燈亮起﹐兩個人萍水相逢。也許綠燈之後一起走過一段路 但到了下一個十字路口﹐
一個轉左 一個轉右。沒什麼可惜的﹐只要一起分享過一段風景就夠﹕) 下一個路口 還會遇到另一個人 也許會陪妳走到最後 ^^

每一件事情都有它發生的理由 現在難過 只是還沒有找到那個理由罷了 ﹕D 快點開心起來吧 ﹗看看身邊 妳會發現很多幸福 ^^

被藍冰哥哥傳染 ~講那麼多 - -

You've awakened me.
I really wanna learn to be like you.
You know how to look in the positive direction when you over come obsticles in front of you.

But at the current time... I can't think of any positive aspects... I'm still stuck in the stage of running away from reality I guess.

[BuBBleHighWaY]

Well, for me, I truly believe in this quote "Everything Happens For a Reason". Even something bad like a break up has itz reasons to occur and itz God's will to let it happen. Thus, 人生總有一失一得﹐我相信這件傷心事的發生會帶來其他的快樂。所以 我總是把注意力放在去找尋身邊那些其他的幸福 ﹕)

I was sooooo upset when I broke up w/ my ex at first.
(家長反對) But thinking back now, If I don't break up with him, I might not make it to my dream school, I might have problems with my family even till now, and I might not meet my boyfriend now ! So see, I truly loved my ex bf and it was sad to let it end, however now, I gainned a whole lot other things back in return !

妳要認真看待每一段感情沒錯﹐但是不要把它看得比一切都重。
生命中有太多太多的事情比男女間的愛情重要 (我認為啦)。 沉溺于愛情中很幸福沒錯 但愛情並非足使妳快樂的一切。如果一個人離開了﹐就當他作妳生命中其中的一名過客。紅燈亮起﹐兩個人萍水相逢。也許綠燈之後一起走過一段路 但到了下一個十字路口﹐
一個轉左 一個轉右。沒什麼可惜的﹐只要一起分享過一段風景就夠﹕) 下一個路口 還會遇到另一個人 也許會陪妳走到最後 ^^

每一件事情都有它發生的理由 現在難過 只是還沒有找到那個理由罷了 ﹕D 快點開心起來吧 ﹗看看身邊 妳會發現很多幸福 ^^

被藍冰哥哥傳染 ~講那麼多 - -

挖賽~@@
你好樂觀喔~~
不過也對拉Lok Lok 洛洛你要打起精神來喔
其實感情有ㄉ時候就是這樣~~來來去去ㄉ
也許現在很放不下~~但是既然都分手ㄌ
你只要知道~~你曾經很在乎過很愛過
對自己有ㄍ好ㄉ交代~~其實這樣就夠ㄌ
我是沒有水藍來ㄉ樂觀~不過他說ㄉ很有道理
你之後會知道也會發現~除ㄌ感情之外
還有很多事情等著你去做
你現在可以難過~~也可以傷心
但是也不能讓自己在這樣ㄉ難過日子裡呆太久喔
要開心一點 ^^

[pkphilip]

Right....... it takes time to heal. I'm trying to stay patient and wait for the hardest time to pass away.
I just hope I could get addicted to myself ASAP!

I understand the "sour" feeling ur talking about... I was surrounded by 5 pair of couples yesterday. They were totally killing me!

What does "black humor" mean? and when was I ever naughty/evil to u !?! hahahah I was so nice to u all the time.

When I first know you from high school, I already got a feeling that you are very naughty. You are quiet most of the time but when you say something, you can shock everyone of us.

There are many ways to think positive. One way you can do is to give youself more confidence. Just keep telling yourself, "I am better!" will probably make you feel better.

Having been in relationship for many times, these things are quite dull to me now. You can feel and say you love someone for one day and the next day, you can hate a person. People-to-People relationships are very fragile. It's been a long long time since we ever talked deeply, and I have to admit that I don't really know who you really are now. haha.

Life is not as hard as you think!! You have friends, you can chat with them and I know that they can help you out.

Philip

[en_saru]

OH my gosh........... who r u ?????
ur scary.......................

i am just a person who happened to be there and bbq with my friends..~
not scary..~ :nono: it was purely coincidential..~

[Lok Lok 洛洛]

i am just a person who happened to be there and bbq with my friends..~
not scary..~ :nono: it was purely coincidential..~

wow.... you recognize me....
how far away where u from me?
It feels kinda scary when you know me... but I don't know who you are... :eeeek:

[Lok Lok 洛洛]

When I first know you from high school, I already got a feeling that you are very naughty. You are quiet most of the time but when you say something, you can shock everyone of us.

There are many ways to think positive. One way you can do is to give youself more confidence. Just keep telling yourself, "I am better!" will probably make you feel better.

Having been in relationship for many times, these things are quite dull to me now. You can feel and say you love someone for one day and the next day, you can hate a person. People-to-People relationships are very fragile. It's been a long long time since we ever talked deeply, and I have to admit that I don't really know who you really are now. haha.

Life is not as hard as you think!! You have friends, you can chat with them and I know that they can help you out.

Philip

This is my first time ever to get into a real real relationship. I didn't have much experience of breaking up before... maybe this is why I'm so stuck in the denial and depression stage right now. I'm actually quite clear of where my problems are.... I just don't know how to jump out of the situation I'm in right now. Like I know where I should head towards... but I just can't find the path towards that final destination.

As you say... maybe I should say "I'm better" every morning I wake up. Force myself to think positively....and try not to look at the negative side.