[miKY]

No. I'm saying that YOU are the one who cares more about your relationship instead of her it seems, even more now as you're trying to counter my statement. A gf is a so-called gf when two ppl are together. When the girl is no longer the guy's gf, she will not then be the so-called gf will she??

oh by the way, this is your problem, we're just giving you advice. That's what you wanted, isn't it? Advice. Think.

You told me that " if that's the feeling u have right now, then that's the exact feeling that ur so-called gf wants to give u right now."
i thought u were saying that she is trying to contribute more in this as i was doing n giving her pleasure.
but now i see that u think she got me onto a lure n im hooked n felt into her trap. thats not the case, thx for the advice tho.

n i thought u mentioned "so-called" because u smelled my wrong doings in the relationship, maybe i missed an important factor in relationship than just giving her what she wants.

advices taken

[朱頭民民]

很簡單，你人太好太努力...
她看到的是你沒付出的一面
而你付出的她往往沒去注意，因為你一直以來都是這樣，當成了理所當然
好好的跟她溝通
雙方想要的並不一定是一樣的，去協調唄
that's my personal experience

[bala_bucker]

um... maybe many other boys b4 have been like this to her, so she might think this is how love is suppose to be.... or maybe what u do is not really that impressive... coz everyone have a different way of seeing things...

and i think it is really normal for a girl to feel that way after sex ba... extreme happiness or extreme depression.... if ur gf is like me who thinks too much, it is really easy to go psycho even everything is going perfectly fine~~ especially u do see another side of ur partner that u dun really see normally during sex... if ur gf is a sensitive girl or could pick signals up really easily then it could really be intimidating....

I mean everyone is different... so until u speak with her, u don't know what she wants and she doesn't know what u wants~~ although i wish a guy could stick to me more often~~ but u do have to balance this with reality~~ ^^

[miKY]

im guessing that im still adapting with this
cuz before, i've never really thought about this, the reason is that before i never used to like her this much, but shes pure/simple enouff that she thought thats what it takes for a relationship
n now im thinking that i should really get to know her more, it just seems to be my responsibilty to take good care of her

[3LawsSafe]

有沒有奢ㄇ 辦法!! 或者 theory, 能讓一對couple不用"好-熱情-親密"就能
穩穩的愛 ?

judging by the way you talk and ur picture. i'd think at your age, the short answer is no, because your girl isn't mature enough to settle down.

you seem to love her a lot, but i'm sorry to tell you that this isn't the right time.

just my 2 cents. if u don't like it, or feel offended, or feel bad or whatever, u can disregard what i said.

btw, no animals were harmed as a direct cause of producing this post. thank you for reading.

[miKY]

water, can you delete this topic please ^^"
i learned my lesson ..