[miKY]

奇怪我很努力想讓我女朋友高興
她想吃啥就買給她
想去哪就很極端的抽空
有困難我會想破頭來幫助她解決
但是, 有一次她跟我說說:
*每次跟你親近後...
不是很高興就是很生氣 ( 我是喜歡管.. like what not to wear ..etc )

我就再想

是不是感情 "好-熱情-親密" 就是要維持讓你的dearest.. happy ?

&*

愛是否只有快樂和生氣可言 ? [ i noe its false, but im confused here ]

or

有沒有奢ㄇ 辦法!! 或者 theory, 能讓一對couple不用"好-熱情-親密"就能
穩穩的愛 ?

[|3uggiE]

你太努力了 = ////// =
問他到底想要傻 不要只用你的方法對他好而已

[BuBBleHighWaY]

奇怪我很努力想讓我女朋友高興
她想吃啥就買給她
想去哪就很極端的抽空
有困難我會想破頭來幫助她解決
但是, 有一次她跟我說說:
*每次跟你親近後...
不是很高興就是很生氣 ( 我是喜歡管.. like what not to wear ..etc )

我就再想

是不是感情 "好-熱情-親密" 就是要維持讓你的dearest.. happy ?

&*

愛是否只有快樂和生氣可言 ? [ i noe its false, but im confused here ]

or

有沒有奢ㄇ 辦法!! 或者 theory, 能讓一對couple不用"好-熱情-親密"就能
穩穩的愛 ?

好難ㄉ問題喔
我只能說
我總覺得要讓一段感情穩定
是一件很難ㄉ事情
而且是要雙方ㄉ配合ㄉ
這不是每ㄍ人都可以做到ㄉ
這可能要牽扯到成熟度~在乎
和願不願意~~有ㄉ時候有試過ㄌ
也不一定可以解決~卻要尋找另一種方法
但如果要跳過一些階段
我想也許感情就不會有所為ㄉ"穩定"
所以這是必經歷~也是最難敖ㄉ八

[Musk]

奇怪我很努力想讓我女朋友高興
她想吃啥就買給她
想去哪就很極端的抽空
有困難我會想破頭來幫助她解決
但是, 有一次她跟我說說:
*每次跟你親近後...
不是很高興就是很生氣 ( 我是喜歡管.. like what not to wear ..etc )

我就再想

是不是感情 "好-熱情-親密" 就是要維持讓你的dearest.. happy ?

&*

愛是否只有快樂和生氣可言 ? [ i noe its false, but im confused here ]

or

有沒有奢ㄇ 辦法!! 或者 theory, 能讓一對couple不用"好-熱情-親密"就能
穩穩的愛 ?

hi
it seems like u'r the one who cares more about ur relationship than ur partner does. am i right?
if that's the feeling u have right now, then that's the exact feeling that ur so-called gf wants to give u right now.
wake up.

[water]

你太努力了 = ////// =
問他到底想要傻 不要只用你的方法對他好而已

i agree..sometimes wut u think she wants she might not want~ :spin:

[cafeboy]

不管如何的親密....
我想..溝通...是絕對的....

言語上的溝通...
心靈上的溝通...

如果只是一味的
用自己的方式去愛一個人
有時..不一定能夠有預期的效果的..
既使幾盡付出自己的一切...
或許..這點..
我還可以勉強說是過來人吧@_@"

[男仔]

一個男生的目標不應放在這種事情上。
事業﹐前途為先。

要讓對方高興﹐先給她看到你的上進心。
兩個人一起最重要的是溝通。
跟她談吧。

[bobobo]

aghhhhh'

grrrr

[miKY]

Thank for all of you guy's comments
every one of them made me realize more within this.
yeaa.. for sure i'll have a good conversation with her

and this

hi
it seems like u'r the one who cares more about ur relationship than ur partner does. am i right?
if that's the feeling u have right now, then that's the exact feeling that ur so-called gf wants to give u right now.
wake up.

so ur saying that my gf wanto try to care more n give more in this relationship while im trying at the same time ?

so-called gf ? may i know why would u say that ? ( curious )

[Musk]

Thank for all of you guy's comments
every one of them made me realize more within this.
yeaa.. for sure i'll have a good conversation with her

and this


so ur saying that my gf wanto try to care more n give more in this relationship while im trying at the same time ?

so-called gf ? may i know why would u say that ? ( curious )

No. I'm saying that YOU are the one who cares more about your relationship instead of her it seems, even more now as you're trying to counter my statement. A gf is a so-called gf when two ppl are together. When the girl is no longer the guy's gf, she will not then be the so-called gf will she??

oh by the way, this is your problem, we're just giving you advice. That's what you wanted, isn't it? Advice. Think.