誰該提分手? - 第3頁

10-14-2005

作者: water

yeah...i think u know that someone too..:laugh: :laugh:
well..now that i think of it...
there's alot of someones like that we know..:laugh:

u mean.. u wern't talking about me? :laugh:

water · 10-14-2005

作者: Harlem

u mean.. u wern't talking about me? :laugh:

well...........let's just say..."someone" and i think u know him very well..:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
lol

Nemo · 10-15-2005

作者: benyaoguai

i was watching tv.. and saw this

couple of situations i guess

假設說你想分手.. 而你的另一半好像沒有這意思
你是女生~ 你會提嗎? 還是等男生提?
你是男生~ 你會提嗎? 還是等女生提?

那如果雙分都感覺想分手了
又該是男生提還是女生提呢?

personally.. 我是覺得誰想分就誰提..
有的男生說分手這句話好像該女生講比較好
我到覺得很不以為然
男生認為讓女生講～　女生會決得比較要面子
今天要是兩個都想分還好
那要是女生不想分男生想分呢？　
那你是要逼她說出她不想說出的話？
還是想讓你們就這樣僵持下去？
我覺得自己想分手卻不肯講出口的男生超沒種的 =.=...
以為不說出口就不用背負甩人的形容嗎？　i dun get it =.=

lol.........

vvn1217 · 10-16-2005

i think it depends on the situation..?
for a normal break up (as in falling out of love, or diff in opinions etc).. probably whoever doesnt wanna continue the relationship should say "lets break up"
but i also know of a situation when for example, the guy doesnt love the girl anymore.. but he thinks hes responsible (maybe becuz their parents know each other, or he simply thinks she'll need someone to take care of her), therefore he'll wait until the girl takes the move, meets some other guy and says break up.

CK · 10-16-2005

i always hear this saying: "誰先題分手就誰贏．"

i think it's very true. usually, the one who proposed the breakup suffers the least, whereas the other side suffers the most.

water · 10-16-2005

作者: vvn1217

i think it depends on the situation..?
for a normal break up (as in falling out of love, or diff in opinions etc).. probably whoever doesnt wanna continue the relationship should say "lets break up"
but i also know of a situation when for example, the guy doesnt love the girl anymore.. but he thinks hes responsible (maybe becuz their parents know each other, or he simply thinks she'll need someone to take care of her), therefore he'll wait until the girl takes the move, meets some other guy and says break up.

wut happense if the girl loves the guy sooo much that she just never want to break up?

benyaoguai · 10-16-2005

作者: CK

i always hear this saying: "誰先題分手就誰贏．"

i think it's very true. usually, the one who proposed the breakup suffers the least, whereas the other side suffers the most.

but what if it's like what i mentioned about my ex..

even if i were the one who said break up..
wouldn't make me feel any better =.= cuz i would be practically forced to