[water]

not as in bases..but as in how far would u go to please ur other half?

i dont know abt guys (cuz i am a girl)
but when i was with my ex, he asked a lot of me..
wanted me to loose some weight, be more lady like, be more wife like, have long hair, stop dying my hair, have to safe him face in front of ppl (ie let him pay but pay him back later) etc etc etc...
the list can go on and on and on and on

i did wut i could, i lost abt 6kg before we broke up, i tried to be more lady like, i tried to be more wife like, i grew my hair long, stopped dying my hair (though i think i look really idotic with black hair), and let him pay when we go out with ppl and pay him later..etc etc etc etc...
anyways...my point is i guess i went a long way for him, cuz i liked short hair (easier to manage), i liked dying my hair (looks more modern), my personaility was just very tomboyish, and i didnt very much liked being tied down (not a wife type of person)...i gave up a lot of things for him (though he still thought i didnt) i guess u could say i went all the way. Near the end of the relationship i really didnt know who i was anymore, i've totally changed...but he was still the same old demanding him, that was the point where i could no longer keep it up...so yeah anyways..wut's ur story?

[benyaoguai]

actually @.@ come ot think of it...
none of my bfs ever really requested me to do anything

only my 1st bf.. wanted me to call him~
cuz he was studing in victoria then~
my parents kinda opposed cuz they thought we were too young
and.. so i couldn't make any long d calls~
so he gave me his family's phone card.. and ask me to call him using that..
i didn't want to~ cuz i didn't want to spend his money~
but he made such a big deal outta it =.=
so i ended up calling hime sometimes still

though~ they never requested anything
but.. i still do whatever i can~

like.. my 1st bf really loved south park~ so i started watching south park (but i did realized that it was some funny shit XD) and..2nd bf~ played mud~ so i played too ~ i never got that game =.= just words!!~~ 3rd.. played cs.. i played too.. although i suck and 3d action games make me just wana puke

let's see.. he used to have to handle this huge cell phone bill every month~
none of us had a job.. so.. i saved up money to pay for his bill as well~ from my very poor allowance =.= i think i only got 20 bucks each week back then.. and i managed to save up 70 bucks within a month or so~ to give it to him..
so basically =.= i didn't really eat out for that whole month ..


i dunno ~ too lazy to go on with examples...
yeah yeah~ i'm like really 兇 and everything ~
but when i'm a gf~ usually i can be very 細心 and 貼心.. (least i think so)
i notice every lil thing (as 粗枝大葉 as i am =.=)

but.. seriously... i think.. maybe that's also why i scare ppl away =.=
太認真了 :shrug:
or.. i dunno =.= i really dunno why guys leave me.. they just say 沒感覺了..
i.. dun .. get ... it =.=.......

oh well~ BEING SINGLE ROCKS !!!! :spin: :spin: :spin: :spin: :spin:

[benyaoguai]

and.. btw hon... ur ex...
ask u to safe him face?????
come on =.= he embarrases himself bah =.=

[|3uggiE]

在無形之中慢慢被改變才是最可怕的~~~

[water]

and.. btw hon... ur ex...
ask u to safe him face?????
come on =.= he embarrases himself bah =.=

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: we'll talk abt this in private..:laugh:

HAHAHAHAHAHA XD

[water]

i dunno ~ too lazy to go on with examples...
yeah yeah~ i'm like really 兇 and everything ~
but when i'm a gf~ usually i can be very 細心 and 貼心.. (least i think so)
i notice every lil thing (as 粗枝大葉 as i am =.=)

but.. seriously... i think.. maybe that's also why i scare ppl away =.=
太認真了 :shrug:
or.. i dunno =.= i really dunno why guys leave me.. they just say 沒感覺了..
i.. dun .. get ... it =.=.......

oh well~ BEING SINGLE ROCKS !!!! :spin: :spin: :spin: :spin: :spin:

i dont know why guys leave me too..
maybe i give up too much too??
i like to think i am a very 貼心 person too...
i dont know..:cry: :cry:

but yeah..SINGLE ROCKS!!! XD

[vvn1217]

well @@ i'd be pissed off if my bf requested me to do anything like WATER has mentioned..
i mean before we got together he's gotta know how i am as a person already. if he doesnt like how i act, how i dress, then why fall in love with me in the first place... trying to change a person in this way is wrong i think...

so yea @@ None of my bfs have done that.. he wouldnt be my bf in the first place if he was that kinda person though..
cant stand it

i know my friends shes with this guy. at first he was so ncie to her. sees her all the time, get her gifts, very sweet and all that. after a fwe months hes trying to tell her how to dress, buying her super high heels and demands that she has to wear them. tells her to dres smore lady-like (she is very girly already -.-)
but then he doens thelp her change in a good way though. for example she smokes, and he'd tlel her to go smoke with him. just not a very considerate person -.- my bf smokes but he tells me i mustnt smoke and he wont smoke in front of me cuz i feel sick from the smell..

and i mean i understand that guys like more lady-like type of girls.. but if she's not exactly your type in the first place.. why bother to get into a relationship and then transform her into smeone she is not???

[晴天]

要認認真真的在一起
就多多少少會為另一方改變
可是有時候卻很難決定那條 "底線" 到底在哪?

不過我覺得有些事總是忠信逆耳吧
因為對方把你的缺點指出來了
多多少少會覺得有點難堪

可是要是我有什麼不好
他卻什麼都不跟我說的話
那我覺得反而會更糟吧

要認認真真的在一起
就多多少少會為另一方改變
可是有時候卻很難決定那條 "底線" 到底在哪?

不過我覺得有些事總是忠信逆耳吧
因為對方把你的缺點指出來了
多多少少會覺得有點難堪

可是要是我有什麼不好
他卻什麼都不跟我說的話
那我覺得反而會更糟吧

ditto that~

there's a really fine line between what you can say and cannot say.. but where that line is at depends on the two person in question~

:spin:

[晴天]

ditto that~

there's a really fine line between what you can say and cannot say.. but where that line is at depends on the two person in question~

:spin:

那可能就要看那個人本身的氣量囉

像我就很喜歡鬧 Ken :spin: :spin: :spin: