[blueice]

i think this is common among most ppl...

when a relationship ends, one side will usually blame everything on the other side. then sooner or later, this person will complain everything to his/her friends, and his/her ex will become public enemy #1.

personally, i think it's okay to complain to your friends. i mean, that is what friends are for, right? we all need some sources to let out our anger and frustration.

BUT...
is it okay to say things in public (meaning ppl other than your close friends would know)? i personally think it's not.

i think in a relationship, there is no absolute right or wrong. even if your EX was wrong completely, you were the one who decided to have a relationship w/ him/her. if the relationship didn't come out as planned, you will have to suffer all the consequences.

think about this...
what if your ex say bad stuffs about you to all his/her friends? would you like that to happen?

只要是事實, 就可以說.

[RSX]

it depends on whom i am going to talk to...

not those IBM for sure~



i don't like things go public either if it is my fault or it is not.


(like mentioning names is a really bad idea)

[晴天]

they were talkn about hot papas last night....@____________________@

i m missing all the fun :cry: