[CK]

i think this is common among most ppl...

when a relationship ends, one side will usually blame everything on the other side. then sooner or later, this person will complain everything to his/her friends, and his/her ex will become public enemy #1.

personally, i think it's okay to complain to your friends. i mean, that is what friends are for, right? we all need some sources to let out our anger and frustration.

BUT...
is it okay to say things in public (meaning ppl other than your close friends would know)? i personally think it's not.

i think in a relationship, there is no absolute right or wrong. even if your EX was wrong completely, you were the one who decided to have a relationship w/ him/her. if the relationship didn't come out as planned, you will have to suffer all the consequences.

think about this...
what if your ex say bad stuffs about you to all his/her friends? would you like that to happen?

[benyaoguai]

r u saying that me is wrong :cry:

but.... i think... i bash my exs in private..
i only state the truth of watever happend in public

if my exs were to diss me in publich..
i think they got the rights to as long as watever they're saying are true~
but if they're bitching in private~
as long as it doesn't come back to me~ say watever you want~ wouldn't hurt me

[無花果]

i don't think it's wrong when u r just complaining to ur friends.
but talk bad stuff about him to strangers indicating his name and stuff would be bad.
i admit that i hate my ex. but i never posted his name on this forum.

[benyaoguai]

i don't think it's wrong when u r just complaining to ur friends.
but talk bad stuff about him to strangers indicating his name and stuff would be bad.
i admit that i hate my ex. but i never posted his name on this forum.

me neither~
although... some ppl do know some of them...
or maybe just one of them XD
but.. i never said any names :shrug:

[water]

r u saying that me is wrong :cry:

but.... i think... i bash my exs in private..
i only state the truth of watever happend in public

if my exs were to diss me in publich..
i think they got the rights to as long as watever they're saying are true~
but if they're bitching in private~
as long as it doesn't come back to me~ say watever you want~ wouldn't hurt me

he's saying me is wrong..:spin:
all well..i dont care..:spin:

it's not like everyone knows who he is..:spin: :spin:
only good friends know..
and they already know the stuff..:spin:
and besides none of my friends liked him in the first place..:spin:
even when i was trying to talk him up..:spin:
i am just telling the truth..not like i bend the trust to make it so it seems like he's a bad guy~:shrug:
there are alot more other worst things i can say..
but i am not that mean..:spin:

[en_saru]

ok bah~ since most are doing so..~ we would prob get to know some People better this way..~ = =a

[vvn1217]

well yeah i only complain to my very close friends. i dun like the others to know about my private life -.-
plus.. i wouldnt wanna mention anything about my ex since we broke up already.. mentioning him or us will just embarass me i think -.-

[benyaoguai]

he's saying me is wrong..:spin:
all well..i dont care..:spin:
it's not like everyone knows who he is..:spin: :spin:
only good friends know..
and they already know the stuff..:spin:
and besides none of my friends liked him in the first place..:spin:
even when i was trying to talk him up..:spin:
i am just telling the truth..not like i bend the trust to make it so it seems like he's a bad guy~:shrug:
there are alot more other worst things i can say..
but i am not that mean..:spin:

well... it's true...
we didn't really like him

but i understand...
when u're deep in there~
u just don't give a damn about what other ppl say

we've all been there :)

[Icesand]

I don't think it's good to say that, but I still did.....hehehe

to a degree it's okay

cuz everyone has a bad side.

we complain about everyone once in a while, that's just human nature.

but it's wrong when you start to bending the truth and start blaming your ex for things that when wrong between the two of you.


makes sense? :spin: