| if you know that you and her are over in terms of romantic relationships, then you should let her go cuz she'll have a chance to find someone that'll make her really happy. and wouldn't you be happy to see HER happy? same with your yourself.
it hurts cuz feelings will always remain no matter how the relationship ended, i mean, ppl would deny it but look, for every person that you've ever truly LOVED, those feelings will NOT be gone or just be taken out of your heart, they'll always be there but in a different form... memories... experiences... something that you can say to yourself " ah... i rememeber the time when...", you know what i mean? don't just erase those out of your head cuz it won't work to help you to move on.
the most important thing is to accept the current situation between the two of you, let it be pure friendship, or whatever. the agony that ppl have towards a terminated relationship is that they don't accept what had happend and are trying to do things to justify their wrong doings, thus avoiding taking the responsibility for partly ending the relationship... anyway, accept it, cope with it, go with the flow and most importantly let time heal the wounds.
cheers. | 
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